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He Says He's Into Me — Why Hasn't He Called?

"He Says He's Into Me — Why Hasn't He Called?"

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I met a guy a few weeks ago through mutual friends. We hit it off, I gave him my number, and he started texting me daily. We've hung out twice since then and both times were great — he kept saying that he wanted to see me again. Usually I let him come to me, but today I was feeling bold, so I sent him a text and asked if he wanted to see a movie tonight. He said sure, asked which movie, and when I told him, he said he'd search the showtimes. That was hours ago, though, and I still haven't heard from him. He's been on Facebook since then, so what is going on? I don't understand why he would say yes if he has no intention of seeing me?

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testadura67 testadura67 5 years
OMG, if it's totally been like, HOURS, then you should probably... chill the eff out. You're not the only thing happening in his life. For all you know he was rearranging previously made plans to make time for you. But if you wanna keep seeing him, drop the crazy. If it doesn't make him run now, it will later. 
senorita135 senorita135 5 years
- Maybe he wanted to say "No" but didn't know how to do it in a nice way - Maybe he came across better plans later on and decided to do that instead of go to a movie with you. - Maybe he has the attention span of a butterfly and forgot about it. - Maybe he had to "wash his hair" *rolls eyes* To this guy, you may be just another "text/FB buddy" - fun to chat with, but not to hang with. If he was serious, he would have gone to the movie with you. Chin up, girl. There are better fish out there :)
missmaryb missmaryb 5 years
Oops. good luck lol.
missmaryb missmaryb 5 years
Maybe he'll still call you, try not to get obsessed about it. If he doesn't, consider him not deserving of your time and let him come chasing after you if he really wants to see you. Goo luck.
chibros chibros 5 years
Rather leave him to play his game alone.. Stop being obsessed about what that doesn't worth it at the moment. Hang out with other people, when he learn to be straight up, you'll know.
henna-red henna-red 5 years
You're just getting to know him, and now you know something new, something important......he's really rude, and he only communicates on his terms. At least that's what his actions are saying. So, why didn't you give him a call instead of checking fb. That's where you get the answer to your question.
Lilyangel Lilyangel 5 years
It depends on where you wanted to watch the movie. At your home or in cinema. Maybe he is not ready to stay at your place yet?
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