Your new boyfriend is amazing. He's everything you’ve ever wanted in a boyfriend and he’s a ton of fun, too. In fact, sexually speaking, you’re having the time of your life — and you haven’t even had sex yet! When the time finally comes, you’re both excited and nervous, but you end up feeling more than a little discouraged by the time it’s over. Would it be worse if he . . .
This: Refuses to look you in the eye during and after sex? You even physically used your hands to move his head directly in front of yours, and he still averted his eyes.
Or . . .
That: Won’t kiss you? The worst part is that when you went to kiss him, his lips didn’t respond at all and it was completely awkward.
Which would be worse?