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Dear Sugar
My live in boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years. I love him, he loves me, we have a really healthy sex life, everything is on the right track. However, he's got this really disgusting habit that I can't seem to get past. He has recently begun to fart when he's climaxing during sex. Although this is a small price to pay for amazing and consistent love-making, I can't take it anymore!

At first, I thought, wow, that was kind of funny and really embarrassing, but then it kept happening over and over again. Not only is his flatulence problem gross, but it immediately distracts me during the act. He is very generous sexually and always want to please me, but his farting noises and smells makes me lose all my focus and I fear it will change our sex life. What can I do? Grossed out Gina

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Grossed out Gina
Ewww! What a nuisance, but I hate to break it to you, sex isn't always as glamorous as it may seem. We are used to seeing hot masculine bodies and beautiful women making love on the big screen, but that just isn't reality. Sometimes sex isn't perfect; it can be loud, sweaty, messy, etc...

Is your boyfriend aware of his flatulent behavior? Have you ever addressed it and asked him to hold it in during the act? Passing gas is totally normal, and as irritating as it might be, you might just have to have a good laugh about it and literally, let it go! Let your mind wander to help keep your concentration and try not to let it interfere if that's possible.

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