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How Often Do People Have Sex?

How Often Do You Have Sex?

This question comes from Sex Polls in our TrèsSugar Community. Feel free to add your advice in the comments!

How often do you and your partner have sex? It would be interesting to see real numbers from a large poll. You hear it all (from 18 times a day to never!), and I'd really like to get a better glimpse at the truth. You can give details in the comments: are you married? How long have you been together? I'm sure a lot of us are wondering!

So tell me, how often do you get it on?

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Venus1 Venus1 7 years
Anon poster 66; I'm sorry to hear this and hope things get better. Your needs are important.
Venus1 Venus1 7 years
I agree with the above post that flying solo is not the same. But I fly solo regularly too! The needs for both are so very different.
sparklestar sparklestar 7 years
urgh and please don't say "try initiating!" because I am SICK OF INITIATING. We wouldn't ever have sex if I didn't initiate & now we're into the massive droughts of 1-2 times a month because it's all down to me. I'm sick of it. It's the only bad part of our relationship, everything else is an absolute dream.
sparklestar sparklestar 7 years
We have sex maybe once a week, if I'm LUCKY. It's really gone downhill & whenever I try and talk to him about it he gets upset and says he's trying to be better. Anybody got any advice for me? He's worried about his performance, even though I say it's fine. He doesn't like to do things unless he thinks he'll be brilliant at them so instead of having sex & thinking he's performing badly he'd rather not have sex at all. He's always telling me how pretty/gorgeous I am so there isn't anything wrong there. He's really affectionate. Sigh, he's just not performing in the bedroom. We haven't had sex for over a week currently and since the weekend is nearly over it doesn't look like I'm getting laid this week at all.
weffie weffie 7 years
Wow I'm surprised birth control kills the drive for so many people... I've been on the pill since before I was having sex (regularly, at least) but I still have the libido of a 13 year old boy (the guy I'm seeing now thinks I'm a 'sex fiend' cos I grew up in the country lol)... I better be careful, if I stop taking my bc I might go completely mental like a cat in heat lmao
tatsauce tatsauce 7 years
I never wanted to be the woman that says, "not tonight" or "I'm too tired" but sometimes it's the truth. My bf and I went from being long distance and having sex multiple times a day every month to living together and seeing each other for most of the day and doing it a couple times a week. Instead of saying, "I'm too tired", I'll just fall asleep, no complaints there!
inlove23 inlove23 7 years
to acyl I'm with you on this one! Also, I feel like my new bc has messed up my drive, but I'm not sure. I selected 2-3 times a week because I only see him on weekends.
watereatsrock watereatsrock 7 years
We dont live together, we have lots of commitments, we have opposing job schedules, we have the most amazing sex but its rare, and by rare I mean maybe once every 2 weeks.
betty-kraker betty-kraker 7 years
i use to have to have it all the time now not so much since i got a tubleligation but my better half would go everyday any day i think hes a nympho
Venus1 Venus1 7 years
I think many of us feel the same way.
acyl acyl 7 years
This is interesting; I learned recently that a woman feels more sexual during the time of month that she's ovulating. I've noticed with myself that there are times I feel almost like I'm in heat, I need sex daily! Then other times I really couldn't care less. My pre-menstral week is usually one of those times...
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