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Group Therapy: Need Tips For Sending Sexy Pics to Long-Distance Love

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My boyfriend and I live far apart. The distance is frustrating, especially when we're horny. We already exchanged a few pictures. Nothing nude though. Usually I am in my bra and undies and at one point I had no bra on, I stood backwards, and took a picture of my back. He is just shirtless. I need some new sexy ideas that can get him going without actually being full-on naked? Thanks guys!

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henna-red henna-red 5 years
(not to be snarky, sorry, just over 17?)
henna-red henna-red 5 years
How old are you?
karlotta karlotta 6 years
First of all... My boyfriend has such a collection of naked pics and videos of me, he could ruin me forever. But he never will. Even if I cheat on him with a battalion of firemen, he'll take these to his grave. I hope your boyfriend is the same. Make sure you know who you're sharing with. Second, Lighting is important. I did a really cool series by using one lamp wrapped into a red silk scarf. The other scarves, I used to hide parts of my body... ChrissyLee's suggestion is nice, but I'd take it a step further. You could take pictures of your body as slices of close ups. Your hip bone, your navel, the small of your back, your neck... etc - and why not even your breasts. If we can't see your face on the photo... it could just not be you. And finally, You could take a series of photos of you taking off your underwear. Little by little. And never even get to the point where we can see anything. Just for him to imagine the rest is enough. Have fun ;)
dfserine dfserine 6 years
people are so pessimistic towards long distance relationships. i was in one for two years. we are happily married now, six years later.
Venus1 Venus1 6 years
This can be fun but don't do what I once did and press the wrong button!!!!
roseate roseate 6 years
Like ChrissyLee suggested, you could take more abstract photos, focusing on one part of you. They don't have to include your face, but they can. Try: your lips, collarbone, lower back and butt in profile, upper back with hair cascading down. Take shots with sexy clothing and in the buff. You can use bedsheets, pillows, or other objects to cover up parts you don't want seen. Have fun, keep it classy, and use the thought of the photo potentially being shared to help you keep things from getting too raunchy.
ChrissyLee ChrissyLee 6 years
I think some of the favorite pics my bf has of me are abstract ones that are not nude or graphic. Like a have a little freckle on my hip bone that I sent a picture of that shows part of my underwear and because he likes to kiss that part of me it made his mind wander. The pictures that make him think about what it is will make him remember past times together and get his mind racing. I also think side boob pictures are very sexy and if your face is not in them then no one else would ever know it was you.
LittleMzFit LittleMzFit 6 years
You wouldn't want to do anything that you would regret later! :wink:
Rjs-baby-girl Rjs-baby-girl 6 years
I don't think the question was if she should leave him, pax4pax. Long distance relationships can work (my hubby and I are proof of that, we were ldr for 18 months before moving in together). To the OP, do you guys only exchange pictures or you also tell each other what you want to do? Imagination can work wonders even without pictures. You can explain to him what you want to do to him, what you want him to do to you, by text or in a conversation. Do you use the webcam? This can also be a lot of fun when desire becomes overwhelming. I totally know what you are going through because I've been there. The key is to remember that for a ldr to work, you also need a deadline for when you'll finally be together. It helps not to lose all hopes.
pax4pax pax4pax 6 years
Either find someone closer or move closer. If he is that important to you or you to him, you can find a way to make it work.
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