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I Can't Get Over My Ex

"It's Been Two Years: Why Am I Not Over Him?"

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments!

OK, it's been over two years since I had a whirlwind romance with a guy. I really though that things were going to last. We were together for only a mere six months. When we were together he'd say things to make me feel special like, "Oh, we have so much in common!" And he'd hold me tight like he'd never let go. When he "ended" it, he just quit talking to me. Never said he was ending it or anything. Just avoided me completely. I still can't make sense of it. He started dating another girl and they are getting married in September.

Through these two-plus years, I quit trying to make sense of it and thought that I'd moved on to my own life and got over it. I had a weird dream last night that his wedding was on the main street of our little town and at the end of the ceremony I congratulated them. When I woke from the dream, that sadness from when we parted ways, hit me hard. All day I've been thinking, "I thought I was over him! What in the world?!"


What is my deal? And why did this stupid dream creep up on me like this?

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