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If I Don't Talk To Him, I'll Regret It Forever

If I Don't Talk To Him, I'll Regret It Forever

Dear Sugar
I want to ask this really hot guy from summer school out but I don't know how to. What if he says no? That would make things really strange at school. The thing is, if I don't get the chance to sneak him a kiss somehow, I am going to regret it forever. Help! I need a plan. Boy Crazy Belle

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Dear Boy Crazy Belle.
Slow down girlfriend. You haven't even asked him out yet and you are already regretting not being able to kiss him. Ok, the good thing is that summer school is temporary. So, if he says no, you'll only have to deal with the awkwardness for another month max.

Do you have any dances or school activities coming up? Ideally, you could ask him to be your date. Then, he'll be thinking about you well before your night together and if all goes well, he may even try to kiss you when you're dancing to Nelly Furtado's Promiscuous Girl! I just love that song. Anyway, that's one way to do it.

But if there's nothing like that coming up at school, then you've got to be more conventional. Try to talk to him during lunch one day. Go over, say hi and tell him that you've noticed him around school and you wanted to introduce yourself. It's an ice breaker, he will be flattered, and from there you can see where the conversation takes you.

If it seems natural to keep talking and you have to leave - ask him to walk you to your class. When you are saying goodbye, tell him that you had fun talking with him and you'd like to do it again sometime. Ask him if he'd be interested in a walk through the park Friday after school?

Check out a past post about How To Talk To The Cutie Acquaintance. You can find more ideas here.

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heatherp heatherp 10 years
is there a group thing you can invite him to?
Shiloh-Jolie-Pitt Shiloh-Jolie-Pitt 10 years
what if he says yes? You'll never know until you try it. The worst thing that can happen is better than living with the doubt.
Adriana42 Adriana42 11 years
guys like to be asked out because it fuels their ego, which i why i've never done it and i never will
ethiopian_princess ethiopian_princess 11 years
lust is a poweful thing, but you won't regret it forever. if the moment comes, go for it, but don't let one hot guy blnd you to other possibly hotter prospects
lacoste1 lacoste1 11 years
Don't make yourself look too available because it makes you look desperate. Chances are he's already noticed you and afraid to make the first move. Mention something to him like a party that you or your friends are having and see if he and some of his friends want to go. That's a great reason to throw a party (like you need a reason!) and a chance for him to show up. If he comes, great! Let him make the first move, but if he doesn't, don't act too disappointed. Some guys like a challenge and if you act too ready and willing it will probably turn him off.
lickety-split lickety-split 11 years
i have been with my husband for 10 years but i would never have asked a guy out, way to afraid they would have said no. good for you for having the guts to ask. i have heard that guys really like it when they are asked out. lets us know how it goes, we all want to hear about the date :) question: if the girl asks does she pay too? or is everything split now anyway. i have no idea what goes on in dating these days.
Snoop3 Snoop3 11 years
ask him out...take the chance!
yayita yayita 11 years
Sweet advice At0x & Cris
crispet1 crispet1 11 years
I def agree with Jinx. Once I was at a club and there was a cute guy dancing nearby. I never got a chance to dance with him, but on my way out of the club, I just had to tell him YOURE HOT AS HELL. Yeah I was 17 at the time, a little over eager maybe? But the point was it probably made his day. So dont be scared to do what you clearly want to do--talk to this guy!
atoxicsparkle atoxicsparkle 11 years
hahahaha yayita!!! the element of surprise! i agree with sugar, do it in a casual-i'm-not-desperate-for-you way. if he says no, his loss! it just means you can scope out more cuties ;)
yayita yayita 11 years
This is a cute letter, I think you should take him to the utility closet and rape him hahaha. Just Kidding, do what sugar says :)
Jinx Jinx 11 years
Its better to regret something you did do, than something you didn't do.
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