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I Feel Useless

"I Can't Change"

This week's confession comes from our anonymous Confession Booth group in the TrèsSugar Community. Weigh in with your advice below.

I have been having some awful habits, lately, especially in the past year. With my education and career, I am turning into this lazy, good-for-nothing procrastinator. I can't achieve anything, and every time I decide to change, I just never get to even starting to change.

In my romantic life, I have been having serious insecurities, trust issues, and I have been really making it hard for my man to endure this. Again, every time I decide that I'm NOT going to pick fights over nothing, I'm not going to check his cell phone, I'm not going to question him about every darn place he has been today and whys or whats and whens and wheres, I do it again. I just control myself for couple weeks and then the monster comes out again.


I have taken therapy and I am trying to use the techniques I've been told, but to no avail. My self-esteem is now so low, I feel like a nagging useless person.

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