This guy is so far under my skin it's driving me crazy. We broke up two months ago and I have no idea why. He has given me vague answers as to why but none of them make sense, in girls terms he went "distant."
He messages me constantly always wanting my advice and support and also to cheer me on because my career is booming finally, but at the same time if I'm not maintaining my distance he backs away.
He has stood me up, lied to me, called me names and makes me feel used. I HATE him as a person and can see he is trying to have his cake and eat it too. But the stupid thing is I CANNOT RESIST him and I hate it, I can see the sex game leading up and no matter how I play it I always give in.
I consider myself strong and I am the one people turn to to see through guys crap so why does this guy have me soooo hooked? I think he is a self arrogant ignorant prick, the more he dismisses me the more I want him. He gives me a tidbit and I lap it up. What the hell does he want from me and how do I get past this? PLEASE help me!!
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