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I Think I'm the Other Woman

Sunday Confessional: I Think I'm "the Other Woman"

This week's confession comes from our anonymous Confession Booth group in the TrèsSugar Community. Weigh in with your advice below.

I found out from a mutual friend that the guy I've been sexting has a girlfriend. I did not know this. I just never asked, and he never told. I didn't reveal to said mutual friend that I was sexting our taken friend.

And to complicate matters, the girlfriend of my sext buddy is also friends with my friend.

I haven't told sext buddy that I know . . . And I don't feel quite as guilty as I think I should. I've been cheated on before, so I know how his girlfriend will feel if she finds out . . . but . . . I don't want to stop. He still initiates some of the flirting and sexting, so he must not want to either.


FYI: My sext buddy lives in a completely different state, and we started sexting after he moved so we've never done anything physical. Maybe I'm sort of "porn" for him . . . Which I'm okay with!

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karlotta karlotta 6 years
You've been cheated on, so why would you do that? I understand that you're attached, in one form or another, but seriously, have some spirit and dignity, and don't be the reason for this girl's heartbreak. It's just nasty.
TurkishPeach TurkishPeach 6 years
Don't stoop to such low levels. You wouldn't like if the man you loved or are with was doing that. Be the better person and have some self-respect and not be a dumb broad.
shreerose shreerose 6 years
This is definitely not okay. Stop.
Pistil Pistil 6 years
I didn't realize people were 'sext' buddies. Am I out of touch, or what? Your relationship consists of dirty texts and pictures. Ridiculous.
sourcherry sourcherry 6 years
You're basically saying that you're happy being porn material and not girlfriend material? Listen to yourself, get some self-esteem.
Bettye-Wayne Bettye-Wayne 6 years
I wouldn't quite call you the other woman yet, though judging by your lack of remorse I don't think you would mind being the other woman. This dude is a total sleaze bucket, for your sake I hope your face isn't in any of your pics.
juicebox07 juicebox07 6 years
I think happygirl88 said it perfectly.
onlysourcherry onlysourcherry 6 years
usually in affair situations what makes it hard is a significant emotional bond/love between the mistress and the taken person. not dirty texts. end it. i'm sure you can find another guy who will want to look at naked pictures of you.
amelioratelj amelioratelj 6 years
Oh don't be ridiculous, you need to stop right away if you know he's cheating. Be an adult and be the better person. You're worth more than to be sloppy seconds.
aliciatx aliciatx 6 years
Even though you haven't done anything physical with him, it's still wrong. And you're not "porn". You're better than that. Be really careful if you continue to do this, because you have mutual friends. If his gf finds what you sent, pics for example, I'm sure she'll find out who you are, she could embarrass you and your pics will be on the net!
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