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Group Therapy: I Want to Try Swinging, but My Boyfriend . . .

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Last night I brought up the idea of swinging to my boyfriend. I casually asked him if he would ever consider 'girlfriend/wife swapping' with me and another couple. At first he seemed really intrigued and I could physically tell he was aroused by the idea, so I got excited that he might actually go for it. I'd like to preface this post by saying that in no way, shape, or form do I want to swing so I can merely sleep with another man. I just think that we've come to a point in our relationship where we are comfortable in trying new things.

I think that this would be exciting for both of us, and knowing men this would be the perfect opportunity for him to experience another woman in a manner that would be okay with me. I finally asked him what he thought and he said "I really like the idea and think it sounds exciting, but I know you and I don't think that you could stand the sight of me with another woman," so I explained that I wouldn't have brought it up if I didn't think I could handle it. To which he replied, "okay, it's really that I don't think I could stand the sight of you with another guy."


I completely respected his decision to not do it, but then he had to pull this double standard thing on me and say, "if you wanted to do something like that we could try having a threesome with another girl."

Find out how she reacted here.

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