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Lessons From Casual Sex

What Have You Learned From Casual Sex?


To find out what women really think about hooking up, we polled 2,000 single women ages 18 to 63, and later this week, we'll announce the results of TrèsSugar/SELF magazine's casual sex survey. Before we do, we're curious about the lessons you've learned from former flings, the stuff that can't be broken down into numbers.

Tells us in the comments how sex outside a romantic relationship has made you wiser, whether you discovered what satisfies you in bed, came to the conclusion that you can like sex for sex, or figured out that you need something more to go with it. You can always sign out to leave an anonymous comment.

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Venus1 Venus1 6 years
I agree totally with the post above.
gabrielle9 gabrielle9 6 years
a committed relationship isn't necessary to enjoy great sex. i think it's important that your sexual partner be someone that you're not only attracted to but also feel safe and open with... which is why i think friends with benefits are great. casual sex can be more playful and less emotionally weighty. a no-strings-attached romp with someone you trust can be fantastic.
shreerose shreerose 6 years
AGREED. ^
wolfpackgal wolfpackgal 6 years
I've learned that sex with someone you care about is always better. I find that I regret casual sex every single time. Without emotion or love, it's empty.
Venus1 Venus1 6 years
Outside of a relationship I have needs. I prefer to opt for sex with friends rather than so called casual but everyone to their own.
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