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Was Losing Your Virginity Spontaneous or Planned?

The Virginity Hit opens in theaters today to tackle the coming-of-age drama that seems like a life-altering right of passage until you're on the other side. The documentary-like movie follows four boys as they help their 16-year-old virgin friend kiss his innocence goodbye.

Before you were a virginity taker, you were the loser. You know what I mean! And while just about everyone wants to shake off their virginal status sooner or later, did you plan on it the night — or day — it happened?

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Venus1 Venus1 6 years
Planned? It was more like a military operation. We knew his parents would be out and I went over wearing a dress and not a lot else (shoes to be precise).
calli- calli- 6 years
I didn't know what to vote for. It was not planned or spontaneous. It was kind of a rape. I was 15 at the time and my boyfriend did a force entry.
CiaoBella01 CiaoBella01 6 years
we talked about having sex and went to a health clinic and everything to get condoms and birth control, but when it came down to the actual moment, it was completely spontaneous.
LikeThoseShoes LikeThoseShoes 6 years
Spontaneous. It was so much fun we did it 2 more times haha
danakscully64 danakscully64 6 years
Planned. I wasn't dating the guy for long, but I thought he was the one. We broke up recently after 5 1/2 years together and I don't regret it at all.
RoaringSilence RoaringSilence 6 years
Let's say I was definitely hoping for it and had taken extra care to shave my legs and wear pretty underwear and all that :P
Ac2366 Ac2366 6 years
Spontaneous. I didn't expect it at all. I wish I waited. I was 23 and I thought I had waited long enough.
dancing19girl dancing19girl 6 years
Planned....it was my honeymoon :-)
juicebox07 juicebox07 6 years
Spontaneous, but I don't regret it as I'm still with him. I wanted to wait until senior prom night, but we ended up doing it 3 weeks beforehand. I'm kind of glad because we were so exhausted after prom that we immediately passed out as soon as we got back to my house.
inlove23 inlove23 6 years
Spontaneous, defiantly cringing now. lol
BeeSabelle BeeSabelle 6 years
Spontaneous, it really was one of those one things lead to another. Although we recently just broke up, I don't regret a thing.
lady-T lady-T 6 years
planned..we waited until we were both ready..
French-Kiss French-Kiss 6 years
1rst try planned, but didn't work. 2 years later, spontaneous, but i knew it was gonna be him, and after some nights spent quite close, i felt it was very near. We both were virgins, and new we wanted to do it with each other. So, depends if you say "spontaneous" as "one day, hot guy, don't know what happened" haha ^^
amber512 amber512 6 years
Planned...it was on my wedding night.
altona altona 6 years
Completely spontaneous. It was pretty much the last thing I would have expected to happen that day, but one thing led to another...
Lovely_1 Lovely_1 6 years
Planned...I was with my guy for a couple months...although I was young...like 13 I think lol.
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