My friend has a dilemma with a new boyfriend: he wants to spend more time together while she could do with less. She's thrilled to be in a relationship with him, but she's spent more of her life single than coupled. He's spent most of his life in a relationship and — I'll just say it — sounds like a serial monogamist.
I've had the same problem. Regardless of how much I like a person, I could do with two or three nights a week together. I savor my nights off, but I am no less excited to see him again. In fact, only more!
Men have a reputation for wanting freedom, yet I know more men who want security and women who want space. What about you?