My boyfriend and I had our one year anniversary yesterday. I've been looking forward to our special date all week long and the day came and went and he never even called.
When I think about it, he's been calling less often over the past month. I don't know how to handle this. I know I need to talk to him, but I don't think that I could handle him breaking up with me. What should I say? Nervous Nori
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Dear Nervous Nori
Why do you think he's going to break up with you? I think that you should just call him and wish him a happy anniversary. You have to be prepared for the worst, but don't be a nervous wreck on the phone by assuming anything. Sometimes guys don't really care about anniversaries and maybe it wasn't nearly as monumental for him as it was for you.
Keep in mind that the worst form of torture is silence. So stop playing games and call him to see what's going on. Ask him if there's anything that you should be concerned about because you aren't feeling all that secure about your relationship right now. You deserve to know what he's thinking.