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Oral Sex: Do You Feel Pressured to Return the Favor?

So you're one lucky woman because your man loves to perform oral sex, and he's not bad at it either. If he was nice enough to take the time to pleasure you, is it only fair to pleasure him right back? Do you think he's expecting you to return the favor? If it's not your favorite thing to do, will you satisfy him just because he did it to you? Share your thoughts below.


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skypoem skypoem 9 years
Oral is pretty much basic and it's glorified in the porn that (most) men watch. And I personally enjoy giving it ... all of the compliments I get after giving good head! ^^
meaganma7x meaganma7x 9 years
i just do it. my boyfriend loves it when i do that to him. and i love how he loves giving to. but if the girls not into, then she should tell her partner beforehand
rabidmoon rabidmoon 9 years
I enjoy doing that for him so its no big deal. He doesn't have to ask (he never does), probably cause I enjoy it. Its a powerful feeling to me, because I know the effect it has. Its not exactly an even trade, as he reciprocates far less, but its not because he doesn't like it so much as we end up doing things that we both like more. When he has, its been great, but its no big thing to me now. My ex was fantastic at giving it, I have to admit, but its not something I "Have" to have to feel like I am getting my share of the fun. My boyfriend is so damn polite about making sure I enjoy myself (either first, or he hangs in there until I do, bless that stamina) that I would never dream of complaining!
luxington luxington 9 years
It's 2008 and oral is pretty much standard relationship fare at this point. I'm very tit for tat when it comes to stuff like this.
sparklestar sparklestar 9 years
I love giving it and he loves receiving it... luckily he also loves giving it but I'm not so fussy about receiving. ;p I'd never feel PRESSURED to do it though but I do try and make sure it's fairly even...
xoxoxx xoxoxx 9 years
I always give. We could be watching Spongebob and I'll just say to myself, "You know what?...He deserves it." Haha, its just something we both enjoy, so it's never been a problem for us.
austerity austerity 9 years
designerel - oh yeah he's totally hot- glad I'm not the only one who thinks so!
tlsgirl tlsgirl 9 years
You know what? I do it a lot without asking for it in return, so sometimes I'm cool with being just a taker.
Frank-y-Ava Frank-y-Ava 9 years
I don't like doing it at all and my partner throws a bitchfit if i don't do it. he's lame, i'm done with him
bransugar79 bransugar79 9 years
I'm not much into the getting even though my hubby is good at it. It's just never been my thing. I really love doing it to him though, which some people find weird because there seems to be a shortage of women who really do actually enjoy giving oral pleasure to their partners. It makes me feel good because he likes it so much, and I kinda get a kick out of being so good at it.
xrawk_starrx xrawk_starrx 9 years
It grosses me out too, omlove.
RaCheer RaCheer 9 years
I love to give and receive it and vice versa. We don't keep a tally but we make sure we're both satisfied!
omlove omlove 9 years
I dont it. It grosses me out.
designerel designerel 9 years
btw HOT HOT guy in the pic!
designerel designerel 9 years
he likes giving it, but i'm not a fan of receiving. i don't mind giving it to him though because he loves it.
anna_muffin anna_muffin 9 years
ditto, brittanyk
Greentea1203 Greentea1203 9 years
I could take it or leave it with oral sex for me, but I love to give it.
ThePerfectScore ThePerfectScore 9 years
I don't feel obligated at all... I do return the favor because I love to! But with some guys who have gone down there I tell them it's for my pleasure only and they should be lucky to get that access.
havok636 havok636 9 years
my guy has always followed the belief "its better to give than recieve" (lucky, i know) but i honestly like doing it to him. i know that he really does enjoy it and its nice for him to not have to ask.
mondaymoos mondaymoos 9 years
I'm with nutella. I feel like it's something both should enjoy and explore... To be honest if homeboy told me "I don't do it" I'd be hard pressed to continue the relationship. I don't feel that sex is THE most important part of a relationship, but I feel like it's a major part, and I don't think I'd be as interested in someone that didn't have the same open attitude I have about giving and receiving different types of experiences in bed.
A-Journey-To-Wellth A-Journey-To-Wellth 9 years
I dont feel obligated at all. I really enjoy doing it to him as much as he enjoys going down on me. And we both love each other's oral abilities so it's all good :)
lauraxtc lauraxtc 9 years
I don't feel obligated to do it. I am very lucky that my bf knows all my special spots. Of course I am very good at doing it to him too but I don't return the favor every time. he he.
jillerin457 jillerin457 9 years
I don't feel like we have to reciprocate every single time, but I try to keep it even overall. Neither of us is actually keeping a tally, as far as I know, though!
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