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Quiz: Are You a Lover or a Fighter?

Fighting with our significant others is unavoidable. Sometimes arguments are quick and easy, and other times they're downright dirty. Either way, your adrenaline starts pumping so it's no wonder there's a connection between sexual tension and the frustrations that arise from disputes; make-up sex anyone? Although many of us take arguments very seriously, others see fighting simply as a means to an end: a passionate or rough romp. What about you?

Do you fight for fun or fight to win? Let's find out.


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GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 9 years
I guess I'm a Fighter. I don't feel like a Fighter. :?
julieulie julieulie 9 years
I don't understand how fighting can be a turn on. When I'm in an argument and I'm fighting with my fiance, it is because I am PISSED. I pick my battles carefully, and for something to rile me up, it means a lot to me. Generally when we argue, I don't even want to see him so I sleep on the couch. I can't imagine following a big argument with sex. We hardly ever fight, but sometimes it feels good to just lay everything out on the table and start over with a clean slate.
i-am-elle i-am-elle 9 years
It said I'm a Lover... but I think I'm more of a Moderator.
indielove indielove 9 years
I agree, Asia, fighting wouldn't lead to sex for me. When I'm pissed, I'm pissed. I'm definitely a hothead. Like I said, just give me a few to get over it, take a deep breath, and it's all good. It's not good to hold a grudge and most times, I really don't. Just say what I have to say and be done with it. Sex can come later, when all's forgiven and we're lovey-dovey again. Seriously isn't EVERYTHING!
Asia84 Asia84 9 years
I got the Fighter! lol honestly, i don't like to fight, but if i have a point to make, then it's going to get made, period. i've never had sex after an argument; i don't have fights in order to have sex. sex is when you both are on the same page and in the mood. a fight is when you're not. who does that??? the last thing i'm thinking about is sex when i'm having or had an argument. if my guy was trying to rub up against me after an argument, it might cause another one, not end in orgasm . . . it's best to let me cool off after an arguement, or you might get the pot to your head. but otherwise, i'm easygoing.
1QTPIE 1QTPIE 9 years
The Lover... I love to push my hubbys button cause when he starts going off back then I start to kiss him and he takes it out on me under the sheets... WOW... it's fun.;P
indielove indielove 9 years
Nothing's wrong with fighting. I can have a huge, nasty fight and be fine within 20 minutes. I don't see anything wrong with that. I don't know how many people are actually like that out there but that's me. I'm a fighter. I'm not the type to cower down and offer all apologies. I've got to be right! Haha.
popgoestheworld popgoestheworld 9 years
I'm a "fighter." There is nothing about a fight that turns me on AT ALL. And when we make up, it's not like I can turn a switch and want to jump on him. I just want to move on.
thewriter thewriter 9 years
I do not like arguing; however it is healthy to disagree. There are ways of getting through these things. I personally will go for a run or coffee if I feel I am about to explode and say something horrible. I can then return level headed and able to discuss it without saying something I might regret. Each person has his/her own method.
acemonkey acemonkey 9 years
I also scored as the moderator. I hate fighting with anyone, but I also want to get my point across if I am right.
aimeeb aimeeb 9 years
The Moderator You don't want a fight. Once one starts you'll do whatever it takes to end it as painlessly as possible, including putting the moves on your partner. Ummm I can't say I use this tactic of fighting to have sex...I honestly don't think I ever have, why would I?
Lovely_1 Lovely_1 9 years
I'm a Moderator - You don't want a fight. Once one starts you'll do whatever it takes to end it as painlessly as possible, including putting the moves on your partner. I know I hate fighting with my man. I perfere talking and working things through instead of screaming swearing and yelling. My man gets mad quick so I have to work VERY hard to clam him down and prepare him for a talk. But we always work it out and then end up having awesome sex :)
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