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Dear Sugar
I was at a house party last weekend and misplaced my camera. Not only am I upset about the actual camera, but the pictures on my SIM card have romantic and explicit photos of my boyfriend and me from our holiday vacation in the Caribbean Islands.

I have ased the host if he has seen my camera anywhere, but so far it hasn't turned up. If these photos get into the wrong hands I will be beyond mortified and he will kill me! Do you have any suggestions for me? Terrified Tabitha

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Dear Terrified Tabitha
Yikes! I can understand your fear, this could become potentially very embarrassing for you and your boyfriend. Has your friend searched his house top to bottom? How close are you with him? Could he be secretly holding the camera for ransom after seeing the pictures on your camera?

Unfortunately, you have to come to terms with the possibility of people seeing your racy pics so try to refocus on the task at hand. I advise you to send a mass e-mail to all of the people who were at the party to see whether anyone has seen it. Hopefully, one of your girlfriends picked it up by mistake, and you can soon put this nightmare behind you!

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Brittany14706805 Brittany14706805 10 years
i agree never take a digital camera with you when it has explicit content on it. I feel for you though id die if it happened to me, but id never leave anything like that on there if i was going somewhere.
controlledspin controlledspin 10 years
I might also add something in the email about "I am sure it was a mix-up, I don't even need to know who it is, you can just drop it off at my home" that way if someone has already seen them, and doesn't want the embarrassment of confessing to it, they can still return it.
mesmiling mesmiling 10 years
yikes ... thank god when i was younger digital cameras did not exist!! i would be in big trouble. now i know better and would never put anything intimate on any type of technology. that lasts forever! i agree with the mass email idea
kiddylnd kiddylnd 10 years
It is always risky to take photos because sometimes we do forget to erase them. That's kind of what makes it erotic tho - the naughty-ness of it and the risk of getting caught doing it. Unfortunately for you the pics may wind up somewhere you don't want them to. Just make sure you talk to your BF about it and not hide the fact that the camera is MIA for now.
vmruby vmruby 10 years
That is exactly why i would never put something so personal and private between two people on any type of digital camera, video tape or anything else. Sorry but that's just asking for trouble.........
honey31 honey31 10 years
Thats the risk you take when you take pics or video tape your sexapades.
Masqueraded_Angel Masqueraded_Angel 10 years
Next time, make sure you download the pics that are on your camera to your computer...then delete them off of your camera. I always make sure that I do that before I take my camera anywhere near any family members or friends. The mass email idea is good.
sugar_princess sugar_princess 10 years
i agree with the mass email idea...
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