Is He Lying to You?: An Ex-CIA Polygraph Examiner Reveals What Men Don't Want You to Know by Dan Crum will help you learn verbal and nonverbal signs of deception and develop a discerning eye for truth.
Important love lessons:
- "Lies don't have to just come from his mouth; they can come from his feet, his sweaty brow, the biting of his lip, his shifting in his seat, and dozens of other combinations of nonverbal deception. Only you can remind yourself to be vigilant in your search for these signs."
- "Nothing should send the alarm bells ringing in your head more than when you ask a simple question and get a convoluted, twisting, TMI answer. Honest people react honestly, with simplicity."
- "You have a hidden ally in the automatic nervous system, but men also have a secret weapon to help them deceive you: guilt . . . Remember, it is your right to ask these questions and get honest answers. If you feel guilty every time you ask them, human nature is such that you will simply learn to avoid the guilt by not asking them; guys know this too!"