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Relationship Protocol: How Often Do You Fantasize About Others?



When you're in a committed relationship, it's not uncommon to fantasize about other men during those intimate times with your significant other. We often feel guilty about it, but let's be honest, men do it too! So ladies, tell me, how often do you fantasize about other people while getting it on with your special someone?

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dm8bri dm8bri 8 years
If I fantasize, it's about a completely imaginary man, like a faceless hot doctor or professor or something. Or I imagine my man as one of those characters. Very rarely my hot hookup buddy from college will sneak in.
Crue Crue 8 years
I'm a one man woman!!!!!!
Crue Crue 8 years
I'm a one man woman!!!!!!
sparklestar sparklestar 8 years
When I was with my ex I used to fantasise about my boyfriend (his best friend)... Now I fantasise about... getting a good nights sleep?? :)
sparklestar sparklestar 8 years
When I was with my ex I used to fantasise about my boyfriend (his best friend)...Now I fantasise about... getting a good nights sleep?? :)
Muirnea Muirnea 8 years
Never during sex. Then all I'm thinking about is my bf. But other times when he's not around, yeah just random made up stuff or those "what if" guys.
Anne26 Anne26 8 years
Never, I think if you are with the right one that's the only guy you fantasize about.
hithatsmybike hithatsmybike 8 years
I fantasize about us being cast in different roles or situations more than different people, but I entertain the odd fantasy on occasion. I enjoy it, and the bf doesn't mind =) I think he probably does the same sometimes too, which I'm ok with -- I can be evangeline lilly for a night or two ;)
hithatsmybike hithatsmybike 8 years
I fantasize about us being cast in different roles or situations more than different people, but I entertain the odd fantasy on occasion.I enjoy it, and the bf doesn't mind =) I think he probably does the same sometimes too, which I'm ok with -- I can be evangeline lilly for a night or two ;)
Rebecca14916991 Rebecca14916991 8 years
Never during if I want it;I'm not coherent enough. If I don't & he insists I just smack him. :) But sometimes, I do kind of wistfully fantasize about what it would be like to kiss other people. Never goes beyond that though.
PinkNC PinkNC 8 years
"Fantasizing is what helps keep monogamy interesting" I liked that one *melizzle* :)
PinkNC PinkNC 8 years
"Fantasizing is what helps keep monogamy interesting"I liked that one *melizzle* :)
divinedebris divinedebris 8 years
Not during sex but other times, boredom and what not. It's usually only actors and my favorite musician, my go to man Trent Reznor but other than that, no. In my books the main character man is my husband, I'm a nerd.
melizzle melizzle 8 years
Of course. Fantasizing is what helps keep monogamy interesting. ;)
Ac2366 Ac2366 8 years
I have fantasized about other men in the past. Now, I don't even look at other guys which is really weird for me. I got what I want.
cordata cordata 8 years
I fantasize about scenarios and people that I'd never pursue in real life. There are also the "what if" guys from the past
Frank-y-Ava Frank-y-Ava 8 years
I fantasize about a lot of people. People I think are cute, friends, sometime co-workers, and people that I've made up in my head. I do a lot of daydreaming..
jesssa jesssa 8 years
never while having sex with him!! when we aren't gettin' it on, from time to time my mind wanders to others a little i guess, subconsciously
jesssa jesssa 8 years
never while having sex with him!!when we aren't gettin' it on, from time to time my mind wanders to others a little i guess, subconsciously
xopiperxo xopiperxo 8 years
i have never done this. i don't even know how i would be able to? i am so into the moment that all i think about is my bf.
macchiatolove macchiatolove 8 years
I would be between never and very infrequently - sometimes, like Oohsexypengu said, if I've seen a particularly attractive actor, or read a particularly raunchy book, but mostly I'd fantasize about my partner doing things with me :)
stumbler02 stumbler02 8 years
darlingDA - exactly! i don't have any elaborate thoughts while hooking up...definitely not picturing anything!
princess_eab princess_eab 8 years
Never - I've only ever fantasized about my boyfriends or fictional characters, actually. Current boyfriends of course. I can't even imagine fantasizing about someone else while actually having sex - how sad.
Myst Myst 8 years
I won't lie, my guy looks like a mix of two of my favorite Asian actors, Vic Zhou and Dennis O'neil and it happened a couple of times after I watched one of their shows or movies.
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