My ex and I broke up over two years ago and we're still friends. Well, I shouldn't say that - he still has feelings for me. He'll call me every now and then and says we're long lost loves.
I think that I may still have feeling for him too and I think that I am ready to call him and see if we can get things started again.
The problem is that we live five hours apart now. I also now have a nine month old daughter and I know he's not ready for that kind of responsibility. He's 23 and I'm 20. I am scared of rejection. What should I say to him when I call? Ex Lexy
Dear Ex Lexy
Don't call - unless you are just looking to keep him as a friend! He's An Ex For A Reason - always remember that. Think about all of the reasons why you broke up in the first place. People don't really change.
Are you sure that you want to be with HIM, or do you think that maybe you just want to be with someone now, especially since it sounds like you are alone and have a baby?
I know that you've got a soft spot for him, but I would encourage you to get back out on the dating scene and start something fresh with a new man. It's time to ditch the luggage.