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Dear Sugar
My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. I'm a freshman in college and he's a junior. We recently lost our virginity to each other and are very much in love. We spend most of our time together when we are not in class, and all of our friends are friends with each other too. It's really great!

Almost every time we hang out, we have sex; sometimes we even have it twice a day. It's amazing and it's really hard for us to keep our hands off of each other. Is this behavior bad? It doesn't feel bad, but I don't want our relationship to become only about sex. Do you any advice for me? Bedroom Bound Betsy

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Dear Bedroom Bound Betsy
As long as your boyfriend isn't pressuring you into doing something you don't feel comfortable with, your sex life sounds perfectly fine to me. Since you started having sex, has your verbal communication changed at all?

Make sure you express your feelings in other ways besides sex to prevent creating a purely physical relationship. It sounds like you are both really happy being with each other so as long as you are having safe sex, just enjoy this time in your relationship and have fun. There is no reason to feel ashamed for having an active sex life.

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