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Should I Take Naked Photos With My Boyfriend?

"Should I Take Nude Pics With My Boyfriend?"

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for many years now and have decided that "saucy" images could be something to liven up our sex life. Obviously I trust him with the images, as I've sent them before. But I don't want to just jump into it, and I was wondering how shall I go about it with images/videos. I don't want to look like a "slut" or something because you never know who ends up looking at your partner's phone. I was just wondering on how I should go about it, thanks.

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persnip persnip 5 years
Don't show your face. That way, if they get out, it can be anyone.
dikke-kus dikke-kus 5 years
Be cautious.
JessicaM25 JessicaM25 5 years
I think it's free game. Take a booty shot or a quick pic of your breast..nothing with the face. The worse they can do..if it gets online that put someone else's face on the body. Trust me, what are they going to do with a huge zoomed in pic of your breast? lol
testadura67 testadura67 5 years
I guess it depends on what you both are into for what kind of content is in the images. Fully nude, lingerie, toys, etc. My biggest piece of advice, like GZO says, DON'T KEEP THEM ON A PHONE. It's one of the easiest electronics to hack into. I agree with the flash drive or an external hard drive. Buy your own photo printing hardware if you want physical copies... people in photo labs can easily make copies for their own amusement. But if it's something you're comfortable doing, do it, but be safe about it. My personal rule is if I don't want my big brother to see a pic of me, it's not taken. Period. Information is too easily attainable/stolen these days.
GZO GZO 5 years
Also, don't have him keep the pictures on his PHONE! Flash drive in a safe that only the two of you have the key for.
CoolObserver CoolObserver 5 years
Only, and ONLY if you make certain that he is as exposed and often and equally represented as you are and ONLY if you get a complete set of the pics of both of you. Keeping it fair is not only the safest, but it shows you are not just being used or at risk in the future. If his privates are as vulnerable as yours, you an bet that he's going to take a lot more care, and just maybe he'll be showing he actually cares more for the relationship and you too.
Bubbles12 Bubbles12 5 years
It doesn't even matter if your boyfriend is trustworthy. Phones get stolen, they're very easy to lose and easy to hack into.
lanwa lanwa 5 years
Oops! That's CAN'T undo it....can't unring a bell honey....seems racy, and exciting until you picture your/or his little brother showing his friends naked pics of you, or one of his friends running across them or hey! what about his parents seeing them! yeah, you get it..nobody ever plans on being seen out of context, but you know it happens all the time!
kitty-Witty kitty-Witty 5 years
think and take time before doing that. if your bf is trustworthy enough then you can go for it . :) good luck :)
lanwa lanwa 5 years
Make a movie, watch it together and then DELETE it! Once it's out there, you can undo it. It's never a good idea to have those things around(John Edwards anyone?). Or have compromising pics of his privates as insurance, although your rep will suffer more than his if these photos come to light...
missmaryb missmaryb 5 years
I posted a reply to this and the site told me it was flagged for approval. I have no clue what that means, but I guess it wasn't approved? Anyway, I'll try again. I would be very cautious about putting any pictures or videos of myself on a phone, computer, etc. Even though you trust him, you just can't predict the future. Believe me, I would have sent graphic pics to my husband when we were married, thinking I could trust him, but when we got divorced he was nasty and I can only imagine what he would have done with something like that once things went sour for us. He would have plastered them all over my facebook page. Just be careful if you decide to do it.
henna-red henna-red 5 years
Once it's online, it's online forever.
pax4pax pax4pax 5 years
Find another way. The risks here are too great. I hope you are both of legal age because, otherwise, someone could go to jail for sending such of minors (i.e., usually those under 18).
chibros chibros 5 years
Going digitally might not be a good idea but if you think you trust him. Start is gradually with censor and don't forget taking personal precautions when taking them. Secondly, like you said, it might not portray a good side of you, thirdly one thing that would worry you much are them if things goes wrong. There's alot way to spice up sex life. Do any crazy things, exactly what and everything you'll do in picture or video in front of him.
lcrox07 lcrox07 5 years
If he is not good at deleting stuff or saving it into a locked album them I would think twice about showing your face in any of these pics.
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