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Group Therapy: Did I Ruin My Chances With Him?

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Earlier this month, I met a great guy who has a lot of the qualities I've been looking for in a partner. We went on an awesome first date; it was really so much fun. Our second date started off great, however I had too much to drink and ended up inviting him back to my place — not something I should have done on a second date.

He came, things seemed to be going well, and he decided to stay the night. Around 2:30 AM, he decided to leave. I had to follow him out because my front door has to be locked manually and since I was half asleep, we said an awkward goodbye. Although we didn't have sex, I woke up this morning feeling awful — like I had ruined my chances of anything real with a wonderful man. Normally after a second date, I would send him a thank-you text, but I'm upset by the whole sleepover thing and don't know how he felt about it.


Am I overreacting? Did I ruin my chances with him? If he doesn't contact me, should I contact him in a couple of days?

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