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Sunday Confessional: Don't Mess With O.P.P.

Sunday Confessional: Don't Mess With O.P.P.

Dear Sugar

I go to high school with a terribly nasty girl. I know it sounds childish, but I really dislike her. At each of our class parties this year, she relentlessly flirted with my boyfriend...well I should say my ex boyfriend. Ultimately, she made a move on him at our Fall Fling and stole him away from me.

Her locker is next to mine at school which also happens to be right across the hall from our Principal's office. My friends and I wanted to get revenge on her and teach her a lesson about flirting with other people's boyfriends, (our first year, she also slept with my friend's boyfriend while they were dating) so I watched her open her locker for about two weeks until I was able to decode her combination.

We then filled her locker with all sorts of embarrassing things such as: tampons, condoms, lubricants, dirty magazines, vibrators and other obvious anal and sexually explicit toys. The next day at school I asked a guy friend of mine to distract her from getting to her locker until the Principal was ready to walk out of his office.

When she opened her locker everything fell out. The timing couldn't have been more perfect. The Principal stopped and stared as did everyone else around her and she was completely humiliated. My friend and I were never caught! Can what I've done be forgiven? I know that it's mean, but getting even felt really good.

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shortashley shortashley 10 years
I say forgive, it was just a high school prank, in a few years you won't even think about it, so I wouldn't worry about it now!
Amity-A Amity-A 10 years
Why didn't you do the same to your ex? It takes two...
onesong onesong 10 years
no offense, but i totally don't believe that this is true. she would have totally gotten into trouble for having that at school.
SUGAR-addict-x SUGAR-addict-x 10 years
its highschool there are always mean people like that. totally forgiven. wouldve made a perfect movie scene ;]
lickety-split lickety-split 10 years
haha! too funny. nothing to forgive, bitch had it coming.
Jazsama Jazsama 10 years
I am wondering why you punished this poor trampy sad girl who probably wants to BE you and your friend - and not these valueless "boyfriends." Girls are so mean to each other. I say forgive but I'm sure you didn't teach her anything. You just saved her a trip to the CVS!
cubadog cubadog 10 years
Not forgive. Grow up I don't care that you are only in high school. You may think you got her back but paybacks a bitch and I hope you are prepared for it.
bluejeanie bluejeanie 10 years
that really wasn't nice, i know this person is in high school but that was really immature. two wrongs never make a right.
gossipqueen gossipqueen 10 years
Forgive. but keep in mind some people think.."oh is high school" but sometimes this insignificant event in YOUR life can destroy other's. KARMA is a biatch!
Ms_Magnificent1 Ms_Magnificent1 10 years
I say forgive!!! Who didn't do something kinda crazy in High School? Five years from now it won't matter anyways...
JessNess JessNess 10 years
Although I say forgive my only issue is did you really teach her not to flirt with other peoples bfs. I mean if you embarrassed her while she was flirting with someone that would have been one thing but this was just a prank that has been played out many times before I like to go to overseas places- like Canada! -Britney Spears
karmasabitch karmasabitch 10 years
This sounds like something out of a teen movie hahaha. Forgive, she's in high school.. gotta cut her some slack. We all did stupid sh*t back in the day (or most of us, at least ;) ) Hopefully she grows out of it, but as far as high school pranks go.. forgive 100%.
lilxmissxmolly lilxmissxmolly 10 years
I chose not forgive. I can understand why you did it, but my personal philosophy is that you should never sink down to a person's level by doing something nasty back. Also, this girl may be making moves on other people's boyfriends because she's desperate for attention. Maybe she has a terrible homelife, with terrible parents, and she just wanted attention. I know that's no excuse, but by humiliating her at school, you may have made things worse for her psychologically. ~* “I think the thing to do is to enjoy the ride while you're on it.” -Johnny Depp *~
cravinsugar cravinsugar 10 years
Thanks princis11. I like to think I am strong, but I do get jealous. This is what he said to me that quieted down my "want to get even" feelings. We were on the phone one night, and he told me this family member of his was trying to fix him up with her friend who has liked him since long before I met him. I told him i was going to say something to them, and i was so mad. he says to me not to. I say why not and he says "Because I say those things for you." The sincerity in his voice calmed me down, and even made me I could deserve someone like him is beyond me but I am thankful everyday for it. I'm all in.
ann_fancy ann_fancy 10 years
This is horrible. You're ex is you're ex, not your propriety and were you even sure the rumors about her sleeping with the guy were true?
princis11 princis11 10 years
cravinsugar - that is terrible that his family does that, you are a strong woman for not saying anything. I would say forgive, because I think you can be forgiven for anything, but it was so immature, live and learn I say.
cravinsugar cravinsugar 10 years
P.S. Girls hit on my boyfriend all the time, and even some of his family members try to fix him up with other girls...yet he stays true to me and I don't have to think twice about it. I'm all in.
cravinsugar cravinsugar 10 years
Not forgive. 2 wrongs don't make a right. what goes around comes around and i can personally attest it is true. While people have done things to me and I to them, I have seen things happen to that person that I am not happy about, but I felt redeemed and did not create any bad karma. it sucks about your boyfriend, but if he was truly good person he could have said no and ignored her advances. Seems to me you are better off without him. I'm all in.
Kratsina Kratsina 10 years
Not forgive... maybe I'm old fashioned but I try to never do something to another person that I couldn't stand having done to me. No matter what they'd done to me to begin with... if either of your boyfriend's were half a man they couldn't have been 'taken' from you so focusing all your anger on the other girl was immature and so was your revenge tactics.
angelbaby2 angelbaby2 10 years
what you did was forgivable-she got what she deserved.
Froggee285 Froggee285 10 years
Totally 100% forgive. The bitch deserved to be knocked a peg down. Immaturity is fine in high school. I give you and your friends points for creativity. I know some people will say that karma will come and get you, but the way I see it, you evened the score. From now on, leave the bitch alone and laugh at her in your head.
dancemiadance dancemiadance 10 years
totally forgive, it may of been immature, but hey, you're in's what we do ! i only wish i was there to see it =]
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