Skip Nav
The Sweet Details of This Small Garden Wedding Make Us Wish We Were Invited
18 Lesbian Romances You Can Stream on Netflix
Staying Is Not Your Only Option — Here's How to Get Out of a Toxic Relationship

Sunday Confessional: I Can't Stop Checking his E-Mail!!

Sunday Confessional: I Can't Stop Checking his E-Mail!!

My boyfriend and I were in a very serious relationship for about a year-
we were best friends and completely in love. However, he is a workaholic, so eventually it reached the point where I felt neglected when he would have to "pencil me in" to his schedule a week in advance just to see him. I basically told him that I wanted to be more of a priority in his life (not in 5th place behind your job etc) or we needed to break up -- so we broke up.

We were very close, so of course I knew his email password. However, this came to become a problem for me after we broke up. It's been several months since we have been separated and I am addicted to checking his email to see what is going on in his life. I have never done anything other than passively observe, however, I realize how wrong and stalkerish it is. But, I'm addicted and seriously don't know how to get myself to stop! I feel horrible about it every time I do it, yet I keep doing it. In addition, not only is it betraying his trust, but in a way, it really isn't helping me move on at all! I feel more obsessed than in love, and that makes me sick. Is what I am doing forgivable? Has anyone else been in a similar predicament?


I Don't Want to Have Sex With My Husband After Having Kids
Student Emails Teacher After Wisdom Teeth Surgery
What Is It Like Dating While Deaf?
This Email Hack Will Totally Change Your Life — And Make You Productive
How to Have Comfortable Sex While Pregnant
Helpful Email Folder Ideas
Male Birth Control | Video
From Our Partners
Latest Love
All the Latest From Ryan Reynolds