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Sunday Confessional: I Don't Like Making Out

Sunday Confessional: I Don't Like Making Out

This week's confessional comes from our anonymous Confession Booth group in the TrèsSugar Community. Feel free to weigh in in the comments.

I don't like to kiss my boyfriend anymore because everytime we kiss he tries to make out with me. I get really stressed out about it and I can't get him to understand.

He takes it as a personal insult that I need to spend quality time with him not making out. Just talking and hanging out, you know? I love to be close to him and kiss him, but I hate that he always has to try to shove his tongue in my mouth of suck my face off. For me, that type of kissing is reserved for sex only.


So, my confession is I don't like making out and I don't know if that makes me weird or not.

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Padawan-Pri Padawan-Pri 6 years
he's probably a bad kisser...
Arctic-Cat Arctic-Cat 7 years
Next time he tries to start making out, shove your tongue down his throat and see if that makes him back off a little! LOL
pink-elephant pink-elephant 7 years
It doesn't make you weird if it's your preference not to make-out with him. It's your personal choice. If it doesn't make you comfortable ,don't do it. Have you told your bf what you just mentioned here? Try explaining your feelings so he doesn't end up feeling hurt. I'm sure he'll understand, it may be hard for him at first, but in the end it'll be okay.
skigurl skigurl 7 years
it sounds like you/he are about 15 why does one little kiss have to turn into a full on makeout session? i love making out, but for us, it is usually reserved for when something else is going to happen
Pistil Pistil 7 years
It doesn't make you weird. I don't like sloppy, tonsil-tennis kisses either. Other than being a bad kisser, it sounds like maybe that's all he's really interested in. You deserve to be more than just a convenient make out partner!
Paromita Paromita 7 years
You are not weird at all.. i had the same thing with my ex.... hated it so much that I actually avoided kissing him and then meeting him and then eventually broke up :P
sarasonne sarasonne 7 years
You need to tell him how you do like to be kissed. Is there a compromise? Like slightly open mouth - think Wedding Singer's "church tongue"
redjupe44 redjupe44 7 years
I don't think you're weird either. He shouldn't try to make out with you every time you kiss, tell him it is too often and that it makes making out less special. Tell him to try to reserve it for sex, or maybe initiating sex. Especially if it is in public, it could be inappropriate. I like making out, but as often as you say I would get frustrated too. Tell him how you feel, he should respect it, and if not, he's not the right guy for you!
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