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Tantric Massage, Anyone?

You may have a vision of Tantric massage — gentle touching, nakedness, feathers, scented oils, silk sheets, and seductive Indian music playing in the background. You're not exactly far off, but there's much more to it than that. Tantric massage was created from the belief that if you're happy sexually, then you'll be healthy. This type of massage is meant to awaken Kundalini, a type of powerful healing energy. It has also been called erotic or sensual massage because it's been known to cause orgasms, but this isn't the goal, and it isn't supposed to involve sex at all. There's a lot of kneading and tickling of the entire body, but it's all in preparation to get the receiver ready for the attention you'll be paying to their special business. Don't think of this as weird, but more as a new kind of foreplay to try, a way to deepen the connection with your honey and to spark your sense of passion. So set aside an hour this week with a bottle of sandalwood-scented massage oil — what have you got to lose?

Dear's Advice: I recommend getting a book such as Tantric Massage: The Erotic Touch of Love ($12). It will help you better understand the massage techniques and concepts. I feel like there's really no wrong way to do it, and if you're wearing next to nothing with your loved one, then nothing but good can come out of it anyway!

Anneleah Anneleah 7 years
Woohh!!! It might add it up on my tools of seduction.. This sound and looks good. We both love massage!
JaimeLeah526 JaimeLeah526 9 years
Sounds like heaven to me. Of course the end result would be awesome sex so I'm all for it.
tatsauce tatsauce 9 years
Sting's 5 day orgasms...hahhahah! I'd like to be around to see that. I think I'll pick up this book, I give the worst massages and my bf is really good, so I have to return the favor.
ThePerfectScore ThePerfectScore 9 years
Hot... Like Sting and he's 5 day orgasms... I totally think techniques from the East are so important b/c those cultures have the biggest populations! haha... The ancient world is wise...
Muirnea Muirnea 9 years
That sounds awesome, I want to try it. :)
skigurl skigurl 9 years
coincidentally, we did this on the weekend well, without any actual technique and it rocked
Ricen Ricen 9 years
I wish I had a bf to do this with! It would ease some of the stress of work lol
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