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Throw a Sex Toy Party

Whether you are new to the idea of sex toys or are looking for a new one to add to your collection, attending a sex toy party can add a little spark to your love life. Unless you are friends with someone who's gracious enough to be the host, you probably aren't going to be going to one any time soon, so it's best if you throw one yourself.

Sex toys aren't kinky or disgusting. They are empowering for women. They allow us to take our sexuality into our own hands. Sex toys can be the bridge to pleasure that most women have never experienced, and sex toy parties are a way for women to feel safe and comfortable asking questions.

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When you invite your guests, make sure the agenda is clear. People should know upfront what they are in for before they show up at your door. Explain what they are going to see (vibrators, dildos, lubricants, etc.) so no one gets offended. You also want to invite mature women that will take this seriously, and not just laugh the entire time.

Find a well-established and highly respected company to provide the sex toy consultant. If you can get a friend to recommend a good one, that's even better. The consultant will be in charge of providing all the toys and explaining them in a warm and open minded manner. (Be sure to have a separate room available so your guests can place orders while maintaining their privacy.)

Dear's Advice: Passion Parties is a company that you can contact to host your in-home sex toy party. If you're interested, you can e-mail them to find out more info. I can tell you right now, your friends will thank you.


BlissConnection BlissConnection 8 years
We do very classy and sassy pleasure parties all over the Bay Area, too! But, we bring our mobile romance store with us so you and your friends can take your purchases home the night of your party. NO WAITING. if you would like more info. We are CLASSY and SASSY but only in the San Jose Bay Area and San Francisco Bay Area
Jeannie_CK Jeannie_CK 10 years
I've never hear of anything like that. Sounds cool. I'd definitely go to one if I could.
Maritza3171011 Maritza3171011 10 years
I am actually a consultant for Passion Parties and I have to say when I was first introduced to the idea it was VERY strange, but the second party I went to to *replenish* my stock was more fun, then my SIL became a consultant so I did too and it's so fun!! Hosting can give you great deals and just going to a party for a fun girls night is very worth it even if you don't buy a single thing! = )
greeneydmonster greeneydmonster 10 years
greeneydmonster greeneydmonster 10 years
i've been to too. the first one was slumber parties and there were waaaay too many people there and everything was expensive but it was still fun. the second was with passion parties which was awesome. we kept it to a smaller group. my 15 best girlfriends tell each other practically everything and once the booze starts flowing its not awkward at all! i think it is liberating to discuss the fact that we all do the same kinds of things and have the same kinds of desires. guys talk about this stuff so openly and its nice for women to have a forum where they can too.
divalicious23 divalicious23 10 years
Pop I think it can be strange with strangers..but with good friends it's cool I think. I would not do it with strangers..I would find it really uncomfortable for sure.
tralalala tralalala 10 years
I would never go to a sex shop without my friends haha, so I don't think this is weird at all. My friend hosted one for her birthday and it was fantasticly awesome. I didn't know penis shaped cookies could be so hilarious.
earthylovingirl earthylovingirl 10 years
agreeed, yeah it's weird...
facin8me facin8me 10 years
Pop, you're not alone. I think it's a little bit weird too...
reeveske reeveske 10 years
My bff works for one of thees compaanies! im planning on hosting one soon thrown by her. whats cool is for her company as the host of the party, you get a certain percentage of the sales for that night in products. my friend got several items just for free last one I went to!
popgoestheworld popgoestheworld 10 years
Am I the only one that things this is a little bit weird?
Random2 Random2 10 years
These are great fun! The women's res throws one every year through a local sex toy store called Under the Covers. The rep takes everyone into a separate room when it's time to order, so no one knows what you got.
miss-britt miss-britt 10 years
i always thought about having a sex toy party for my bachelorette party instead of going to a strip club or getting drunk. But i'm no where close to getting married. Just an idea.
glam-sugar glam-sugar 10 years
A friend had a Pure Romance party and it was lots of fun! There's plenty of items for couples to share, not just your standard personal stuff like Bob the vibrator or the rabbit etc.
bookgirl bookgirl 10 years
I went to one that was run by Passion Parties. It was fun! And the ordering was discreet. You ordered in a separate room, unless you just wanted to fill out a form in front of your friends. I personally don't care who knows what I have.
lms lms 10 years
I was invited to 2 by my same friend. The first one I just couldn't make myself go to. The second invite coincided with a trip that was already planned. I think I would have gone to the second one. Hmmmm...
Masqueraded_Angel Masqueraded_Angel 10 years
Oh wow...I've heard of these parties but have never gone to one or thrown one. Maybe now that I'm making more mature friends at my new job, eventually it might happen.
WhatTheFrockBlog WhatTheFrockBlog 10 years
Whatever you do, don't go through Party Gals. I threw one through them and it was a DISASTER.
eaker eaker 10 years
le luxe the ordering process is very discreet. You place your order one on one with the sales lady. Nobody knows who buys what unless you decide to tell everyone.
LaLaLaurie06 LaLaLaurie06 10 years
I've been to two of these before. My first one I was surrounded by 50+ women who were talking about their husbands. It was a little uncomfortable lol! But the parties are fun when you go with people you know or the whole party is people you know. Everyone gets a little bit more comfortable.
Le-Luxe Le-Luxe 10 years
No thanks- i really dont want to know which toys my friends own! Yikes.
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