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True Confession — He Still Wants Me and I Like the Attention!

Weigh in and tell us if you forgive or not forgive this True Confession.

"This guy I used to mess around with, that I haven't seen in four years, is begging me to send him pictures of myself in my underwear. Besides that the fact that I'm happily married now, I would never do it, but truth be told, it makes me feel pretty good that after four years, he still thinks about me and my 'perfect' body. Can I be forgiven for still smiling at his request?"

If you have any naughty thoughts to confess, do it here!


calli-gurl calli-gurl 8 years
any girl would like it. but yeah, dont send him anything or reply to him. never cheat. remember that ure married. but fully enjoy that this guy still thinks ure hot. lol. its normal to feel good and smile. but DONT act on it.
pureperfection pureperfection 9 years
FORGIVE! But DONT DO IT! Just do it for your man(husband), he deserves a good treatment :)
thelorax thelorax 9 years
Forgive, as long as you don't act on it. Everyone needs affirmation, and everyone likes to be told that they're sexy.
amber_castaldo amber_castaldo 9 years
Forgive - everyone likes to know they are wanted and being married doesn't make that need go away. Just don't act on it.
Meike Meike 9 years
Forgive. The attention on you is nice as long as you don't pay him any attention. If it were me, I'd delete his request and block him. If he knows you're married, that was very inappropriate of him. And, ditto, on the OP not bragging about her 'perfect' body even if it were the case that she said it and the ex-fling hadn't implied it. If more women believed similarly about themselves, their esteem and self-worth would be in a much better place.
jennjennnbubba jennjennnbubba 9 years
forgive... innocent flirting is fine, its your actions after the fact that matter
angelbaby2 angelbaby2 9 years
these mid week confessions are weak
JaimeLeah526 JaimeLeah526 9 years
She's saying that the guy said/implied that she has a perfect body not that she thinks she has one. I saw enjoy the attention but tell him it's inappropriate and not to contact you in this manner again. If you just ignore him and don't tell him you're married it's not going to solve anything.
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 9 years
Forgive. You didn't do anything wrong. Besides, it's flattering. I agree -- I don't think the poster is bragging either. It's okay to be content with one's body. That's the ideal self-image to have, I think. On the other hand, I may be projecting. :) Like some women, I can be vain about myself, too. Sometimes I think, while looking in the mirror, "If God didn't want me to be vain, he wouldn't make me so pretty!" or "I'm so hot, I would do me!" Haahahahahaa . . . ! ;) :)
AujahAcorn AujahAcorn 9 years
So what! She thinks her body is hot? whatever. I think my body is hot. Am I bragging? No. what is perfect to you might not be perfect to others. she might be a 300lb sumo wrestler... you don't know. I don't understand why some of you think its bad or bragging to say the evil words "perfect body". Come on ladies..... that what we want to hear out of us all!!!
divinedebris divinedebris 9 years
I didn't get the feeling the poster was bragging about her "perfect body" and it's funny people did..ha. Hey, get that ego boost, if you're innocent and not bringing on his attractions then don't worry about it. If your husband is jealous, might not want to tell him but if he would find it funny, let him know. Shouldn't keep things from your significant other, communication is key to a good relationship. I had a similar situation with an ex, we are friends and I was talking about my insecurities and he said to stop complaining and that I know I'm beautiful.. that was weird but I told my husband any way. We don't talk any more, and I didn't feel guilty for the ego boost and you shouldn't either.
aeschere aeschere 9 years
any girl would love that :) as long as you don't act on it of course, you're golden! take it and live your great life with your husband :)
josephine88 josephine88 9 years
ooh, that is a very nice ego boost! So long as you don't act on it, I don't see any issue! I would smile to myself if that happened to me. You don't seem to be bragging about your "perfect" body at all - it would be a problem if you *didn't* love your own body and privately celebrate it.
skigurl skigurl 9 years
i forgive her for smiling, but there's no way this guy is sending unsolicited email requests for photos she's obviously responding to fuel the fire, or else he would have stopped by now
BeachBarbie BeachBarbie 9 years
Forgive. I think it would be wise to cut off contact with him, definitely don't send any pics, and don't tell your hubby. Oh, and I don't think the poster is bragging in the least. I really think she's concerned, due to feeling a bit guilty since the request made her feel good. :shrug: Also, I don't see anything wrong with feeling good about yourself over certain things. I think more women should speak up about their positive qualities. Confidence is a good thing. :)
Bearwoman Bearwoman 9 years
Snowbunny took the words from my mouth. You should not be forgiven for bragging about your "perfect body" in here.
michelleannette michelleannette 9 years
hmmm. i think that there's something wrong with the situation. why is this creep contacting you in a sexual manner if you're married? does he even know you're married? i think it's okay to feel good, but don't respond to all.
Sporky Sporky 9 years
Tell him you weigh 300 pounds now. He'll leave you alone.
MeggyPoodles MeggyPoodles 9 years
Snowbunny!! I laughed out loud at this! "Oh pooor me, I have had impure thoughts, but what can I do, I'm just so hot..." hehe funny funny.
yadiet yadiet 9 years
I say forgive!!! But don't write back to him. And dont mention it to your hubby either. Like my mother always told me."There are just certain things you never mention to your man" This is one of them
AujahAcorn AujahAcorn 9 years
Reminds me of a similar situating I had. I have a feeling this happens often. Girls like a ego boosts... Guys take a chance that we will give in. not me. :) I say forgive! I also say dont respond to him.
binks binks 9 years
my ex did this to me - well he was dating a girl years ago... While we were dating I found out she was sending him half naked pictures & she is married. To me that is a form of cheating. Never the less I wasted four years of my life with that guy. Glad this happened tho - gave me the strength the leave.
snowbunny11 snowbunny11 9 years
I mean, yeah an ego boost is good and harmless. Just, obviously don't send him any pictures. Am I really cynical to think the poster is asking this to get even more of an ego boost? "Oh pooor me, I have had impure thoughts, but what can I do, I'm just so hot..." And then have us all tell her ego boosting is harmless and if she's hot she can't help it. Haha okay yeah, I know I sound so bitter or something!!
MartiniLush MartiniLush 9 years
Hey, it's a great ego boost! :-) Enjoy it! But definately DON'T encourage it. Jillerin is right, keep it to yourself and don't write him back.
jillerin457 jillerin457 9 years
It's okay to smile, but nothing else! Don't write back, and don't tell your husband, because it will only cause tension. But who wouldn't want to feel attractive?
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