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True Confession — If I Knew I Could Get Away With It, I'd Do It!

True Confession — If I Knew I Could Get Away With It, I'd Do It!

Weigh in and tell us if you forgive or not forgive this True Confession.

"I want to have sex with my husband's married best friend. If I thought I could get away with it, I'd totally do it. I know having those kinds of thoughts are unacceptable, but are they forgivable?"


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calli-gurl calli-gurl 8 years
unforgivable. its totally wrong. whats with that line 'I want to have sex with my husband's married best friend'? huh? so if he wasnt married it would make a difference? no it wouldnt. because hes ure husband's BEST FRIEND. thats bad enough. worse, hes married. worst, YOU are married and ure fantasizing other men. i would never wish a wife like u upon anyone.
odd-man-out odd-man-out 9 years
So why did you get married? It doesn't seem like you have a solid idea of what commitment means, same with what cheating means. That is mental cheating in my books. That is behaviour that I could never condone for myself, or for anyone else. Great, you don't want to get caught and hurt people... but you don't seem to have a single shred of respect for your husband or his friend's wife. If you had respect for them, you would never even consider any of this. Presumably your husband trusts you... how sad it is that you have misled him like that. Harsh? Perhaps, but maybe getting married wasn't the right thing for you; it needs a rock solid base of love, trust, respect, and much more... many aspects of which seem to be lacking on your side of things.
Silverlining10 Silverlining10 9 years
Okay, this is ridiculous. The only thing that stops a person from doing anything bad is the possibility of getting caught. Sure, some are morally upright, but...For the most part, if there wasn't a chance of a person getting caught committing murder, cheating on an exam, cheating on a person, or whatever, they would go through with it. It is exactly that fear of being caught that makes a person decide not to go through with it. Absolutely forgive! This is human nature, get over it!!
ajennilynrushhh ajennilynrushhh 9 years
if it's a thought, then forgivable. but actually going through it and you would be cheating, unforgivable! if you're not going to feel guilty, go ahead.. but not forgive
winniecooper winniecooper 9 years
tough crowd...
honeysugar28 honeysugar28 9 years
As long as you don't act on it. Thoughts are just thoughts and our mind plays tricks on us. But honestly how would you feel if the shoe were on the other foot and your husband was saying I'd wanna have sex with someone else? Not so hot is it?
joesbabygirl joesbabygirl 9 years
Thats just bad.
Da-Ly Da-Ly 9 years
If there is intent or follow through, unforgivable. If there isn't intent or follow through, forgivable. So really, the thoughts itself is forgivable. The decision to turn it into reality however is a separate thing itself.
kikidawn kikidawn 9 years
I agree with Kristinh1012 and bransugar79
RustyAngel73 RustyAngel73 9 years
I chose undecided and heres my reason why. It's definitely forgivable to think about it - we all have our little fantasies. Unforgivable (for lack of a better word) to act on it.
RaCheer RaCheer 9 years
FORGIVE! They're just thoughts. But if you actually went through with it...whole different story!
bransugar79 bransugar79 9 years
I say not forgive because married or not ( although being married does make it slightly more worrisome) you aren't simply attracted to this man. I think people keep forgetting that there is a distinction between simply being attracted to another person and actually taking that to the level of thinking about cheating with that person. I know we can't help being attracted to other people, I mean we're human and people catch our eye sometimes, but dwelling on the thought and getting to the point where you would disrespect your relationship by considering acting on that feeling is pretty low. And I don't know how people can be willing to mess up their own relationships and someone else's. I'm sure if some woman wanted to sleep with your husband if she thought she could get away with it you wouldn't forgive her.
Le-Luxe Le-Luxe 9 years
Forgive- you will never get away with it, so you will never do it ;)
Bksuga Bksuga 9 years
um... from a married womans point of view they are just thoughts but i think that sometimes all women do think about cheating. but as long as they stay just that its not bad.
lauraxtc lauraxtc 9 years
I guess, f you are not doing it, then it's forgivable. But I you actually do then yeah that's bad. lol. Then again people don't listen, they do what they want. lol.
Blackwood Blackwood 9 years
forgive ...what else could you do? you don't plan on who you desire. and you can't really change it, either. the best you can do is fake and suck ir up, but it doesn't change the truth.
fleurfairy fleurfairy 9 years
Why did you get married in the first place then?
kiwitwist kiwitwist 9 years
I agree with Kristinh1012. Your statement is very selfish, Not Forgive.
almost-famous almost-famous 9 years
O damn, She's I didn't read that part.. You nasty girl you! LOL just kidding babes.
sparklestar sparklestar 9 years
You know you'd never get away with it, so you'd never do it. Provided it's just a THOUGHT and you are devoted to your husband then who cares?
RadishSalad RadishSalad 9 years
cjmara, agreed. Exactly. :)
cjmara805 cjmara805 9 years
It's ok to fantasize and want... just don't act on it!
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 9 years
Not forgive. You lack integrity and maturity.
RadishSalad RadishSalad 9 years
Clarby, I didn't think about that! You're right. That would be ruining two marriages. :( I think I will still forgive, one: to stick with what I said and not go what everyone else said (LOL) and two: you KNOW you can't get away with it, so that means you won't, right?
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