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True Confession — I Still Love Him

Weigh in and tell us if you forgive or not forgive this True Confession.

You dumped me, then two weeks later you turn up on my doorstep and tell me you love me, that I'm the best thing that ever happened to you, and that you've never felt like this before. A week later you call to tell me it's over and you made a mistake. You're either a liar or a coward, but whatever it is, I still love you and would get back together in a heartbeat.


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calli-gurl calli-gurl 8 years
forgive u for what? loving him or letting him use u like a piece of handkerchief? i voted undecided. because i dont know what ure confessing here. but ive gotta say, u are pretty cheap. he keeps using u over and over and treats u like trash. its up to you to be his toy. its up to u to be a cheap little loser. strap on some boobs and move on. let him go. hes a loser. you dont have to be one, do the better thing and stop being so cheap. have some self respect
khadeekiinsz khadeekiinsz 8 years
I was undecided about this one. We all know what a man can do to a woman. But you really need to move on, he's a jerk and he's playing with your head. You definitely deserve better. I mean c'mon, do you really want a guy like that??
AlexE70 AlexE70 8 years
Forgiveness can be cleansing, but is ultimately a sign of weakness and insecurity. Move on, and if you look back on anything at all, look back at what you leanred not to expect in a relationship.
ilanac13 ilanac13 8 years
i don't think that what he's doing is forgivable and i think that i would just 'x' him off my list of people to talk to. when people yo-yo like that in such a short period of time, it means that they are being coward-like in my eyes. if he didn't want to break up with you then why go through the trouble, and if he did, then why come back and say that he still wanted to be with you. i would write him off of my list and just move on
Mykie7 Mykie7 8 years
He sounds like a game player and you don't need that. Realize that you deserve a lot better and move on. He'll keep using and abusing you if you let him. Remember, no one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
Bearsy123 Bearsy123 8 years
Fallen85's comments are spot on! That's what I was also thinking. Its quite obvious to women who have been burnt before and can now sniff out an a**hole from across the room.
Bearsy123 Bearsy123 8 years
Tell him to bugger off. You're not a yoyo! Your emotional strings aren't to be played with. He doesn't know what he wants, except maybe that he wants the best of both worlds ie: being single yet having you to fall back on
austerity austerity 8 years
Honey, you are INVITING trouble by making yourself so vulnerable to someone who treats you like THIS.
omigosh omigosh 8 years
Yeah my question too, Jude C. Forgive the guy for being an a$$ or the girl for being a fool in love? Anyways: guy - not forgive girl - forgive, but only because the pain is still so raw. if you still feel the same a year from now, i would be worried
Jude-C Jude-C 8 years
Who are we supposed to be forgiving here? :?
princess_eab princess_eab 8 years
not forgive, because you deserve WAY better! you'd be amazed how many guys will treat you like a real princess, once you start treating yourself like one! learn to love yourself!
Le-Luxe Le-Luxe 8 years
Forgive. You know he is wrong, but I know you still probably wish for the better 'old' times. Be real though, you deserve better than that!
ajennilynrushhh ajennilynrushhh 8 years
**my friend went through the same thing
ajennilynrushhh ajennilynrushhh 8 years
I'm agree with Fallen85 with her examination because my friend through the same thing! And my friend is the guy who "made a mistake". So my friend is immature and a liar and a coward right now. Haha. But, my friend did that whole thing Fallen said. He broke up with his girl, hooked up with another chick (which was his best friend), ended things with her, crawled back to his ex saying "I love you. I never felt this way about anyone before. I made a mistake". He told me he did this because he has commitment issues. So maybe your ex has commitment issues? I don't know, but do you really want to get back together with him when he can just hurt you all over again? I think you should move on. Yes, it'll be hard but you'll feel better in the end and find a better man. Love is blinding you right now.
Janine22 Janine22 8 years
I don't really think that this is an issue of forgive/not forgive. If you want to continue to allow a man to step all over you, then go for it. But hopefully you will reach a point in your life where you have more respect for yourself than to allow some guy to manipulate you. You don't really love him because you don't really love yourself enough to have the pride and dignity to not allow him to use you anymore. If you take him back again, he will do this to you again. Trust me, I have been through this before. It's not worth it.
Fallen85 Fallen85 8 years
Not Forgiving the chick.
alexialayale alexialayale 8 years
oh... i don't get those whole forgive/not forgive thing... what's to forgive? she's doing this to herself!
alexialayale alexialayale 8 years
leaving someone is like treating acne... it gets worse before it gets better!!! but you've got to DO something to make it get better!! :P
cravinsugar cravinsugar 8 years
are forgiving/not forgiving the boy or the girl?
alexialayale alexialayale 8 years
You MUST know either subconsciously or admittedly that the better choice is to leave him behind and don't look back, it's just the actually doing it part that's hard... When you're ready, (and you may never REALLY be ready, but you've got to do it sometime - soon) tell him to leave you alone (don't call, don't text, don't write), have a good cry, go out with your friends, spend time with the fam, just do things that'll cheer you up and DON'T fall back into his trap (which is SO easy to do). You've got to realize that you're your first priority in this case and you've got to treat yourself better than he ever could. So forget about him, move on, all of which takes time, but you've got to give it time (and lots of it) in order to succeed!!! Trust me! you'll feel SOOOOO much better in the end.
Fallen85 Fallen85 8 years
I might have forgiven after the first time but the second time? No chance. Not Forgive.
Fallen85 Fallen85 8 years
Lets Examine this... You dumped me (he met a hotter chick), then two weeks later you turn up on my doorstep and tell me you love me (the hot chick dumped him), that I'm the best thing that ever happened to you (he really needs to get laid), and that you've never felt like this before (he's terrified of being alone). A week later you call to tell me it's over and you made a mistake (the hot chick wants him back). You're either a liar or a coward (both), but whatever it is, I still love you (infatuation) and would get back together in a heartbeat (She's a doormat with tits. No wonder he dumped her for a hotter chick.)
candace87 candace87 8 years
Well, the REAL confession on the site doesn't end like that. It ends "You're either a liar or a coward. Either way, you've completely f****d me."
geebers geebers 8 years
I am going to be harsh because while I know we have been in the position where we still care for someone even if they suck that does NOT excuse letting someone treat us like a doormat. Even if you love him -you say you would take him back after he dogged you like that?? No way- I don't forgive you- you deserve better and you know it.
cravinsugar cravinsugar 8 years
I say forgive, but if you were talking to me about this as a friend I would encourage you to move on, and if you refused to tell you not to talk to me about it anymore as you know what to do but aren't doing it and that is frustrating to all those around you.
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