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True Confession — I'm Crushing on My Best Friend's Husband

True Confession — I'm Crushing on My Best Friend's Husband

Weigh in and tell us if you forgive or not forgive this True Confession.

"I am completely in lust with my best friend's husband and I hate myself for it. We flirt innocently, but I don't know if I could turn him down if he took it to another level and made a move on me. My best friend is like a sister to me, but I just can't help myself. Can I be forgiven for secretly feeling this way?"


cristal556 cristal556 8 years
don't you even dare to do such a thing, just find a person that is single and available, and stay away for some time to keep your emotions in check
Allytta Allytta 8 years
it's a feeling. you can't control it. so of course forgive. if/when you act on it - that's another question.
boanderson boanderson 8 years
Please have the sense to see that this situation is nothing but trouble. You need to back away and not have contact with your bf's husband if you can't control your thoughts about him. You have already crossed boundaries that could forever ruin your friend's life. You are being selfish and unrealistic in thinking this is harmless.
Miss-Senorita Miss-Senorita 8 years
Yup you win the BFF award!!
margokhal margokhal 8 years
I'm undecided. If you don't actually DO anything in trying to entice the husband to take it to the next level, then that's fine. Or else you'll end up on Maury bawling to your friend about how you slept with her husband and your baby might be his. [Extreme? yes. Impossible? no.], and who wants to be THAT girl?
lolak lolak 8 years
I wish I knew who your friend is cause I would tell her how disgusting you and her husband are! There is no such thing as innocent flirting so stop trying to feed us your coniving lies! you either do it or you don't, Get away from them RIGHT NOW!!! or you might just show up on an episode of Cheaters looking gross and embarrased. Or, even worse if that's not enough to scare you, you better believe that God Himself will make you pay your dues cause He does see EVERYTHING. Nasty. No woman friends for me EVER!!!!
khadeekiinsz khadeekiinsz 8 years
Not forgive at all. No problem with thinking that your friend's hubby is hot. But gosh...You need to fall back. Disgusting!
untitled1 untitled1 8 years
I said forgive but ONLY because you haven't acted, if you had acted then it would be not forgive in a heartbeat. If you're a true friend you wouldn't do anything with your friends husband regardless of your feelings for him.
emalove emalove 8 years
You need to get over that little crush of yours...and fast.
notinthemood notinthemood 8 years
How delusional! Nice move, though... putting responsibility in HIS court... "I don't know if I could turn him down if he took it to another level and made a move on me!" Riiight... Please put the cheesy romance novels down and grow up.
eliepoo eliepoo 8 years
i'm sorry but if you have feelings for your best friend's husband flirting is def. not innocent. it's because of women like you that i'm turned off by having women as friends.
crayolasky crayolasky 8 years
Wow, you're SUCH a great friend! ....... Not. You should feel ashamed of yourself. It's pretty much just as bad to think about it. I feel bad for your friend. She deserves better. (And normally I wouldn't be so rude about this, but you are the epitome of women who can't be trusted at all. And you say your friend is like your sister? Hope she doesn't think of you in the same regard.)
WeTheLiving WeTheLiving 8 years
You're in control of your own behavior. Don't try to make dumb excuses that you wouldn't be able to control yourself; you can.
missyd missyd 8 years
It's people like you that scare me. Honestly. I fear having a friend like you. Worse than an enemy by far.
luna08 luna08 8 years
A crush is one thing...knowing you'd act on it puts you firmly in the "don't forgive" category. I've gotten a little flushed and flustered around one of my friend’s gorgeous and fatally charming husband...then laughed and moved on!
sparklestar sparklestar 8 years
If you do this to your best friend I can't imagine what you would do to your family... Did you also steal from your grandfather? You need to cut contact with them both until you can set your sights on another man. SERIOUSLY. How much of a skank are you?
chatondeneige chatondeneige 8 years
Crushes are fine, but saying you'd act on it? That crossed the line for me. When I was a teenager, I had the biggest crush on my bestie's boyfriend. He was smart and cute... Oh man. But I NEVER would have acted on it, because that girl is my sister, and I couldn't hurt her like that. I question whether you really love your friend if you'd do something like that.
lemuse20 lemuse20 8 years
Forgive, BUT... no no No NO NO. ...NO! Go find your own man.
GScott86 GScott86 8 years
Stop flirting and don't act on it. The minute you act on it, you're done, just put yourself in the oven right there. It's all sexual, go look at some porn instead.
bluepuppybites bluepuppybites 8 years
I think crushes are fine as long as you don't act on impulses. If you feel you might then you have a problem. I'm married and I stare at guys all the time.
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