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Turn On or Turn Off: Musicians

I’ll admit I’ve entertained a few rockstar fantasies in my day. There’s something endearing about a man who can make music — I mean what woman hasn't wanted a song written just for her? But real life has taught me that the musician lifestyle isn’t one I’m really cut out for, but what about you? Ladies, tell me, is a man with a guitar and a sweet voice a turn on or turn off?


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Alyssa14890378 Alyssa14890378 4 years
I dated a progressive metal / aspiring jazz drummer for a year. WORSE WASTE OF TIME EVER! He broke my heart, took my money, made promises he never kept and toyed with me like crazy, to eventually tell me I was getting in the way of his music. I encouraged him, supported him, cooked for him, took care of him, gave him my apartment key, drove him everywhere, went to his gigs, packed the drums, unpacked the drum, packed the drums, unpacked the drums millions of times, put up with his rehearsals, and emotional instability, and when I needed him for support, HE WAS NEVER THERE. I love him like crazy, but they just can't commit to anything but themselves. They're selfish pricks.
LittleMzFit LittleMzFit 7 years
They don't have to be a rock star. :)
Bearwoman Bearwoman 9 years
When I was younger, yes. But I soon realized that many of them are really self centered and won't settle down or make you the most important thing in their life.
Phunkometry Phunkometry 9 years
Well I have no real option here. My bf is a jazz trumpet player. He's adorable because he's so into it and has all these hopes and dreams, but I have sensitive ears and the trumpet is LOUD. But he is a really hard worker (he has a "real" job, aside from trying very hard to get recognized as a musician) and he is the best boyfriend I could have asked for. I do prefer a jazz musician to a "rock star", though. I don't know. I guess I'm just biased.
JaimeLeah526 JaimeLeah526 9 years
How could you not love them?
incheto incheto 9 years
only rockstars :)
RaCheer RaCheer 9 years
I'm secretly in love with Taylor Hanson...well maybe it's not so much of a secret!
janellethechef janellethechef 9 years
I'm a sucker for drummers....
michelle-c42934 michelle-c42934 9 years
Undecided. I don't really think I would want a musician for a boyfriend, but I once had a boyfriend who was in a band, and he wrote me a really cute song.
sugarsister sugarsister 9 years
my broker plays the guitar during breaks in his day and i find that sexy. but only because he's an on-the-ball businessman first and a nurturing-his-sensual side musician second. that's the perfect proportion of responsible-to-sexy for me
Summerlove78 Summerlove78 9 years
Dated one. Didn't want to believe the stereotype with the drugs and DIE HARD devotion to their band over their mate(most times),but..well, let's just say I put my foot in my mouth. Won't be dating any rock musicians again. Learned a good lesson. On another note though, a guy who just plays the guitar/piano or other instrument for a hobbie is damn sexy.;)
A-Journey-To-Wellth A-Journey-To-Wellth 9 years
I agree, Renees3!
Brooklynbee Brooklynbee 9 years
I don't think I have ever dated someone who wasn't a musician!
Renees3 Renees3 9 years
My dad is a musician and while yea he is super laid back, he's also one of the sweetest most caring people I have ever met. I like that side of musicians. I think a lot of musically inclined men are more in touch with their sensitive side, which can help communication and such.
nicstar nicstar 9 years
Honestly, I don't know what it is, but every single guy I've dated (except for one) was a musician. My current boyfriend is a musician. Despite some of the stereotypes about musicians being jerks/lazy bums, I've dated with some wonderful people.
plasticine1 plasticine1 9 years
one of my weaknesses, after geeks
skigurl skigurl 9 years
having a guy sing to me is my absolute WORST NIGHTMARE!
aimeeb aimeeb 9 years
I've dated a few musicians in my day, granted I'm not with one of them now but back then it was fun and that's all I really wanted. ;)
lilmeggers99 lilmeggers99 9 years
my bf plays lead guitar in a band, but its just for fun on the weekends (he works fulltime during the week)...its the best of both worlds! and very sexy!
Lovely_1 Lovely_1 9 years
Not really my type... I guess it depends on the type of music they write/play.
A-Journey-To-Wellth A-Journey-To-Wellth 9 years
Doesn't have to be a guitar player or singer to be a musician. My ex boyfriend (but we still remain good friends) is a jazz musician, alto sax specifically and he is a TOTAL turn on. Esp since he knows how to use his lips. Other types of musicians, in bands- singers, guitar players and the like I dont have experience with... yet.
Liss1 Liss1 9 years
Well since i am married to a musician, turn on!
LOVErickii LOVErickii 9 years
completely agree with sundaygreen!
sundaygreen sundaygreen 9 years
even the ugliest man can be sexy on stage.
girlie871 girlie871 9 years
I have a thing for musicians even though ive never dated one. Ive always fantasized about being with a singer or just a guy who sings really well.
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