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Using Sex Toys With a Partner

I know that in the past, using a sex toy with a partner was unheard of. I think most people assumed that it would give a guy a complex about his performance or make him feel inadequate. Now that people are becoming more open about their sexual experiences, women are realizing it's just as important for them to have an orgasm as it is for a man. Since intercourse alone doesn't always make that happen for a gal, sex toys are becoming popular. And truth be told, using sex toys can also be exciting for the guy and add some spice to your sex life.

What do you think? Do you or would you use sex toys with a partner? Are you against using sex toys entirely, or do you think they're best left for your alone time?


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Girl101 Girl101 7 years
I have never done this just looking for a way to keep it interesting.
k8-rckstr k8-rckstr 8 years
fun times :)
krazykarot krazykarot 8 years
the one guy I did use a sex toy with really enjoyed it, so I'll definitely use them again in the future.
xoxoxx xoxoxx 8 years
thanks, LadyLiLa! Will be checking that out ASAP :D
MandyPinecone MandyPinecone 8 years
toys can be a lot of fun when used together, but the real thing is the best.
alexask alexask 8 years
i don't think it's good to bust out a toy right at the beginning of a relationship. but once you've proven yourself are each other's most pleasurable items, then whatever floats the- bed.
LadyLiLa83 LadyLiLa83 8 years
SarahPuffy, go online to places like or Much better than going to the store! :)
LadyAngel89 LadyAngel89 8 years
I'm all about variety. If you do something the same way all the time too much.... it gets old lol.
AujahAcorn AujahAcorn 8 years
Its fun time to time but I really prefer all real.
bransugar79 bransugar79 8 years
I never used them by myself but my husband and I got one to use together. It's ok but I really prefer the real thing. I'm totally for anyone enjoying them with or without their partner, but for me psersonally alot of the enjoyment of sex is the contact of flesh on flesh and toys just can't do that for me
allinavhcnerf allinavhcnerf 8 years
i love using sex toys! i hate those amateur furry cuffs!
xoxoxx xoxoxx 8 years
My beau is all for it, and has been trying to buy toys for a while. However, its embarrassing only because he wants to buy from Spencers, but not an actual adult store! I swear, last time we went, everyone was just staring at Beau cos he's all excited saying, "Hey babe, you want this one? Its 7 inches!" This was during rush hour [who knew people went to the mall an hour before it closed!?], and it was even more awkward when the clerk came to us and was all "HEY YOU GUYS SHOULD TRY THE FURRY CUFFS!" No. I'm all for the toy play! Now if only we could go to a REAL adult store...
shell99 shell99 8 years
They're a fun addition once in a while. But I perfer the real thing.
princess_eab princess_eab 8 years
My last boyfriend convinced me to try them - he liked the idea of us using them together as well as me by myself. I have to say, I'm grateful I have one now!
DearSugar DearSugar 8 years
Hi Guys! The post last week was referring to using sex toys alone! Check it out here.
Berlin Berlin 8 years
Yeah AMyLyn we DID Just have this topic all too recently. Same thing going on with the "Dear" and "You Asked" postings...not really sure what's going on with that. They're either double posted frequently and/or edited to the extreme!
Greentea1203 Greentea1203 8 years
Yeah, once in awhile is good times!
AmyLyn AmyLyn 8 years
Didnt we just have a post like this last week? I totally remember making a comment about topic! are a great way to spice things up!
gossipqueen gossipqueen 8 years
green light for toys! :)
designerel designerel 8 years
I haven't tried using them while with my bf, but he has said that he won't be hurt if I wanted to, so I appreciate that. I think I just have the mentality that they are really meant for alone time, though. Besides, my bf never really has a problem getting me off anyhow :) I guess that's why he's so secure about this.
angelinamichael angelinamichael 8 years
So do we. Sometimes there is nothing sexier. Really.
Lovely_1 Lovely_1 8 years
We use them from time to time :) They're fun and keep things fresh!
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