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When It Comes to Oral Sex, What Do You Prefer?

Fellatio and cunnilingus have to be the worst possible words for two very wonderful things. I guess it's better than saying "blow job" or "going down," but I prefer the term oral sex.

Giving or receiving oral pleasure is one of the most intimate experiences that two people can share.

If you've had experience with oral sex, you would know that receiving it can arouse you like nothing else, but giving it and satisfying your partner in such a powerful way can bring you just as much pleasure.

So I want to know...


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Jake2010 Jake2010 6 years
Where are all you givers hiding? Come out - come out - wherever you are!! PLEASE!!!
Girl101 Girl101 7 years
I actually prefer to give. Hubby is great at giving to me but I prefer to have straight sex for my pleasure. Also, when I don't feel like having sex and he does or if I just feel like playing with his boys this is a great release, he never objects.
1Lisa 1Lisa 7 years
I like both, it's better for both of us.
skypoem skypoem 8 years
What designerel said exactly! The compliments I get from him .. ahhh I love it!! :]
designerel designerel 8 years
Haha I have to say my bf has a pretty amazing tongue. I was never a fan of receiving but I really feel comfortable around him. And on the flip side, I like giving because he enjoys it so damn much and it's great to see him so happy haha.
skypoem skypoem 8 years
I likes to give :]
llsand llsand 9 years
Yah My Hubby actually really like's to give and give and give and i also need to tell him " let's more on " or else he'll just stay there :)
desertflower desertflower 9 years
I love giving and receiving. My bf really likes to give and give and give!! Which feels so good but sometimes I have to tell him its time to move on to sex.
ccalm ccalm 9 years
OMG THank You rosey_y "I can't believe I'm going to post this. This is probably going to be waaaay too much info, but... oh god... I actually had a huge orgasm once while going down on my boyfriend, just from the sheer pleasure of giving him pleasure. Nothing and no one was touching me 'down there' either, at any point. Haha, when I told my boy afterwards he said "Holy sh*t, marry me!!". Oral sex is definitely my forte and I guess people enjoy doing what they're good at? Right?" I couldnt have said it any better I always thought is was weird how much I enjoy giving so thank you.
nessabum nessabum 9 years
i chose giving because i'm a little self-conscious when i'm on the receiving end.
ThePerfectScore ThePerfectScore 9 years
I actually like giving b/c of the way my guy responses..... I've got him all figured out and I know just where to touch him... its great to hear his breathing change and his body twitch.... we have a fun time.... He's also good at giving
ninjastarlett ninjastarlett 9 years
"both" needs to be an option!
moofive moofive 9 years
my boyf doesn't have any natural ability when it comes to oral sex, and it's kind of a problem. he said his last gf didn't like it, but I have a feeling she merely didn't like teh way **he** did it.
the-makeup-blogette the-makeup-blogette 9 years
giving. the receiving gross me out!
rosyposy rosyposy 9 years
There is nothing better than receiving it but you definately need to be with a guy who knows what he's doing. If he doesn't then its uncomfortable
Danigirl77 Danigirl77 9 years
I voted on the greedy side... But I prefer the term Oral report!!! LOL .
quietone84 quietone84 9 years
Neither, I prefer regular sex where mutual satisfaction is easier and you can see each other's faces.
leilanidream leilanidream 9 years
60% receiver I like to get it a bit more than give...But when im on the peace pipe you can believe I aim to please...LOL
Bukalala Bukalala 9 years
I feel I was cheated out of a "both" vote.
Sofiababy Sofiababy 9 years
oh my god, who ever doesnt like receiving hasnt been with the right person yet. its the most amazing thing. there are just certain things that a tongue can do that nothing else really can do quite like that. also, i didnt like ANYONE down there before because i just wasnt comfortable with them or they were too pushy and it scared me away.. but what can i say my boyfriend has MAD SKILLS. tee hee that is all im going to say.. oh yeah and i also like giving it. i love how he gets, and because hey its something im just good at =]
mrspiven mrspiven 9 years
i don't really love either. i prefer 'traditional' sex, but so does he, so it works out!
kurniakasih kurniakasih 9 years
Both! I love it when I get to see my hubby get all crazy ;) But of course, if I had to choose one, I'd say more on the side of Samantha from "Sex and The City" said that it's not called a "job" for nothing :lol: Plus, hubby is really good with giving ;) ;) It's always a hit with him.
nomerz nomerz 9 years
I really hate giving it -- but I do it if the guy wants me to because I'm a natural giver, ha!
trala1 trala1 9 years
Don't like to give, but love to receive.
nicachica nicachica 9 years
i LOVE owning my boyfriend when i give. when he gets that look of pure pleasure in his face, i just know that it is ME he wants and ME who can please him like no other. :) on the other hand, when my boyfriend returns the favor, it can be hit or miss. sometimes it's the most mind blowing amazing thing ever and others, it's like "oh, that was nice sweetie. now can you hand me the glass of water?" yes, i wanted a "both" option!
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