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Where Do You Stand? Drunken Sex

I'm sure you've all had your moments — you go out with friends, you have a drink before dinner, a drink with dinner, a few drinks after dinner, and before you know it you're more than a little tipsy. I don't know about you, but alcohol definitely makes me feel more free when it comes to my sexuality. Now I'm not saying I make a habit out of having drunken sex, but alcohol can come in handy if you need some help lowering your inhibitions when becoming intimate with your partner, while being safe, of course!

So where do you stand on drunken sex? Do you think there's anything wrong with drinking and getting it on? Or would you be too worried about forgetting to use protection or saying and doing something you'd regret in the morning?


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Bettyesque Bettyesque 9 years
Drunk random sex ... NO. A few glasses a wine and then getting wild with your man from time to time SURE why not. Usually wine = bow chicka wow wow with us anyway :rotfl: ... If you have a good healthy relationship I think drunk sex doesnt matter. I prefer sober though.
j00j j00j 9 years
i make TERRIBLE sexual decisions when i'm drunk. i much prefer making love with my boyfriend completely sober.
samischo samischo 9 years
i attend UCSB. and they call it the university of casual sex and beer for a reason! unfortunately it happens a little more than it should...
fireannach fireannach 9 years
My boyfriend and I tend to have a lot of really drunk sex. We love sober sex too, if not more, but since we're long distance, when I come to visit everyone is always excited and we all go out and party all weekend. We can't have sex in the day time because my boyfriend's roommates are all around all day long, so we only have the night, and by that time, we've been out party hopping or visiting friends for a few hours. If it wasn't for drunk sex, though, who knows if we would have ended up together? We have been good friends for years but fell out of touch when we went away to college, and the first night he came back this past summer he invited me over to hang out and drink with our old group of friends, and one thing lead to another, and we ended up having sex that night. The whole day afterwards was like, oh my god, I can't believe we had sex? I had sex with him? But it wasn't necessarily negative thinking, I was just really shocked. Anyway, we continued hooking up every night and often during the day too whenever we were alone, sneaking kisses as soon as people left the room, until we finally admitted to ourselves that we had fallen for each other, and now we're coming up on one year together, happy as can be!
emalove emalove 9 years husband and I love this!
duck-duck-goose duck-duck-goose 9 years
I do not drink, ever. Mr. Goose does not drink, either. We only share sex with each other -- so, no drunk sex for us. Sober sex has always been good for me, so I guess I don't need a helping substance to lube the experience. I'm in command of my sexuality and my body; I have very little inhibition with my Goose. I'm open and he is enthusiastic. I guess we're fortunate.
kendalheart kendalheart 9 years
I love drunk sex!
Sydney-C Sydney-C 9 years
Wow, I'm so the opposite...I barely ever have sex with my bf if I haven't been drinking. Alcohol seems to be the only thing that gives me even some sort of a sex drive.
sweetrae80 sweetrae80 9 years
i had a few irresponsible drunken hook ups back in the day - being drunk helped me to let down my inhibitions but i always ended up feeling like i made a big mistake the next day. not because of the drinking or the sex, but because i was looking for a relationship and the guy was only looking for sex. ugh. now that i'm engaged, generally when my finace and i get tipsy one of us passes out before we can do how things change!
LikeThoseShoes LikeThoseShoes 9 years
i enjoy drunken sex with my boyfriend. it always makes it a little more intense, loosens us up (even though we dont really need it) and ALWAYS guarantees for a fun time in the sheets. lol we get really goofy and arent afraid to say what we feel.
Martini-Rossi Martini-Rossi 9 years
I dont drink very often and when I dont I never ever get drunk, So drunken sex would never happen to me. If it did it would be with my fiance which is alright with me. I have a friend who just gave birth to her first child. He was conseived during drunk sex.
alltherage alltherage 9 years
drunken sex with someone ur committed to can be fun. but it shouldnt be a necessity. :)
bbkf bbkf 9 years
I'm not one for casual sex, so I'd never hook up with someone I wasn't dating while drunk. But, drunk sex with a boyfriend or my hubby can be fun!
saranightly saranightly 9 years
My boyfriend and I are usually too tired when drunk to have sex! However, once in awhile it can be fun.
geekygirl geekygirl 9 years
i cool with tipsy sex but not really into doing it when i'm blind. and i've only really done fairly drunk sex with my current bf (serious long term thing). only time we've been drunk drunk i fell asleep mid-thrust, poor guy. but tispy drunk sex is fun when you trust the other person
odd-man-out odd-man-out 9 years
I guess I'm a bit of a prude perhaps, but I don't like the idea of having my judgment hampered. I just don't drink, so I would never have drunken sex. As said by some previously, with the SO, it would be fine, but I don't know why anyone would do that with a stranger.
Janine22 Janine22 9 years
I have definitely had a couple of one night drunken hook ups that I regretted in the past. With my fiance, sometimes it is fun to drink a bit. Too much is no good though because I just pass out before it can happen. I think it is good for women because it can get them more relaxed or in the mood. But not so much for men, because they may lose their stamina or erection!
K-is-For-Kait K-is-For-Kait 9 years
I've never had drunken sex with anyone except my boyfriend, but I don't really think that's the case for most people. From what I've seen with my friends, drunken sex almost never turns out to be a good thing and you do a lot of things you regret.
Silverlining10 Silverlining10 9 years
I don't mind tipsy sex with a significant other...But hooking up with random strangers when I'm drunk is just an excuse to have guilt-free sex. I've been DRUNK DRUNK before, but I always knew whether I was having sex or not, and I still kept my morals with me. Anything I won't do sober, I won't do drunk. I'm all for experimenting and doing fun, crazy things, but I have no shame in doing them sober.
TheCatie TheCatie 9 years
My boyfriend isn't a drinker, so there has never been the problem of worry about safety. Sometimes I'll have been out drinking with friends, and come in and get frisky, but we're always safe about it. Personally, I find it fun. As long as it's not the basis of your sex life and you're safe no problem!
TidalWave TidalWave 9 years
i agree with kenziebaby. i think it's fun with my SO and loosens us both up.
omilawd omilawd 9 years
I'd rather have sex sober than drunk. I'm too afraid I'd be lax with protection, and I'd like to be able to remember things in the morning.
Meike Meike 9 years
No. I'm perfectly comfortable having sex with my husband without the influence of some substance. My sexual/body inhibitions with him is non-existent. If we were to have drunken sex, it would be purely to see how sex is with our overly giggly behavior. However, we rarely drink in the first place.
allien86 allien86 9 years
I dont drink, have never been drunk and only sleep with my bf so I've had no experience with this, however I have never wanted to... Too much potential trouble
shernic82 shernic82 9 years
I think a lot of girls who both drink and have sex have done it. The last time I did it, the next morning was pretty awkward because I hadn't know the guy that long and it was just...weird. I do have a few drunken incidents, though, that are probably the hottest I can remember. It totally depends on the situation.
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