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Where Do You Stand: Keeping Track of Your Sex Life

This may be news to you, but some people keep track of how often they have sex! Whether they use a online orgasm logger or simply jot it down in their journal, monitoring your sex life can actually be really helpful when tracking your cycle and making sure your period isn't late.

I'm not sure if writing down how often you get it on is a popular practice or not, but how do you feel about it? Do you keep track of your sex life or do you think it's kind of weird to tally how often you're getting busy?


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darlene darlene 9 years
I don't care to keep track
emalove emalove 9 years
This is weird and a little control freak-ish to me.
Nina_79 Nina_79 9 years
Why would you do this? To check your calender and go 'oh no I havent't had sex in 3 days, i better get it on tonight??!!'
bransugar79 bransugar79 9 years
Don't think that I would do this just because well why would I need to? Other than the trying to get pregnant thing which I understand. Ihaev sex on a regular basis and frankly I'm too busy doing it to write about it. If there's ever a time I'm missing it I won't need a calendar to prove it
bingkaycoy bingkaycoy 9 years
This is kinda weird and too paranoia-ic. When I was still single, I used to keep track on my menstrual cycle.
Silverlining10 Silverlining10 9 years
I...heard about a girl who wrote about every time she had sex, like even the nitty-gritty details, on Maury once, so...I guess I believe this exists. However...I'm lazy. I'm more concerned with keeping track of my dreams or not keeping track of anything!
JaimeLeah526 JaimeLeah526 9 years
I have honestly thought about it but I've never actually done it. I don't think it makes you pathetic. It would be cool to know exactly what day you conceived if you were trying to get pregnant and I'd consider it then. I just wanted to see how often we have sex cause it's so random I have no idea.
heineken67 heineken67 9 years
I think keeping track would be even more depressing than forgetting when the last time was.
uptown_girl uptown_girl 9 years
When I was a sophomore, and NOT sexually active, neither were my friends, I became friends with this girl who was definitely sexually active and she showed me her calendar where should would mark the days they had sex. I thought it was a little weird.
Sporky Sporky 9 years
Oh boy.
Natty Natty 9 years
I guess I must be sad or pathetic, because I keep track on my calendar.
Marseeah Marseeah 9 years
Also, is it weird that I've never once kept track of my period? I've been on the pill for medical reasons since way before I was sexually active, so I've never seen the need.
Marseeah Marseeah 9 years
I am totally going to put a heart in my planner every day I get busy now! I feel that looking at all those hearts would give me a special little happy feeling every time I see it!
A-Journey-To-Wellth A-Journey-To-Wellth 9 years
I do the same thing as lizrocks-- keep track of my period but not so much my sexcapades... the site I use doesnt factor in that stuff. btw
MissChita MissChita 9 years
This is a little silly. I agree w/ bbkf, just keep track of your period instead. Keeping track of sex is just TOO technical. LOL
lizrocks lizrocks 9 years
I keep track of sexcapades on my online period tracker (I use and it has a handy 'Notes' section for each day of the week). How is that weird? Every time is awesome, why shouldn't I keep track?
txcowgrl077 txcowgrl077 9 years
Im there with you lolabella... It is kind of sad.
lolabella lolabella 9 years
sure wish MY calendar even slightly resembled the one in the article...
lauraxtc lauraxtc 9 years
I think I am going to try this method to see how many times I do. I use to have sex 2 two 3 times a now, its every other day. lol.
Kimpossible Kimpossible 9 years
When we practiced Natural Family Planning I kept track but not anymore.
skigurl skigurl 9 years
are you f-in kidding me? this is so weird! who has time for this!?!?! the only time i'd find this normal was if you're trying to get pregnant and even then, like lovely_1 says, you should be able to keep track of "daily sex" in your head, no?
bbkf bbkf 9 years
how about just keeping track of when you have your period instead?
MartiniLush MartiniLush 9 years
An online orgasm logger??? LOL!
Lovely_1 Lovely_1 9 years
I have sex daily sooooooo I already can keep track in my head ;)
jillerin457 jillerin457 9 years
I write down EVERYTHING, and it's never crossed my mind to do this! I'd be so embarrassed if someone found it!
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