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Where Do You Stand? Oral Sex Every Time You Have Sex

It's a sad but true fact that women usually take a lot longer to orgasm than men. It doesn't help that many of us can't orgasm through intercourse alone — we need clitoral stimulation, which is why oral sex is so important! If that's the case, how do you feel about having oral sex every time you get it on? Does having it that often make it less special? Or are you all in favor of doing anything and everything you can to help you reach the mighty O?


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Venus1 Venus1 7 years
Absolutely! Essential every time for me! Sometimes I like oral only sessions too!
millarci millarci 7 years
I love oral sex! Good foreplay is important to me.
Girl101 Girl101 7 years
I prefer to give than receive, but it can be nice once in a while.
dikke-kus dikke-kus 8 years
Oral sex is just an appetizer and not always what women want on the menu. Sometimes we just want the main course just as anyone would. And to be perfectly honest, there are some men who aren't experts with everything, so better to skip that part of the meal sometimes if you know what I mean.
Shirley11988 Shirley11988 8 years
Bella14Stella Bella14Stella 8 years
Who has time for both every single time? Seriously...
myprivatespace myprivatespace 8 years
that is so sick of u MickLove. Oral sex is just so amazing. Both of us love to give and get oral sex. and 70% of the times we start with oral sex after some foreplay. and to th best of my belief, it takes courage to give oralsex. we could not do that when we were new in the relationship. It is only when u feel no difference b/w loving ur body and his, that u can dare to give oral sex. in our 2.5 yrs relationship, it is just 8 months that he started giving me too and i love it. i never knew it was that sexy unless he did it to me.
MickLove MickLove 8 years
Wanted to add this opinion: Oral sex is the poor man's Viagra. When the guy's equipment begins to malfunction, whatever the reason, he offers this anemic substitute for real sex. That is the signal for this gal to upgrade to a healthier partner.
MickLove MickLove 8 years
I hate oral sex. It does nothing but bore me,. Sometimes it is painful. That is a deal breaker. If some guy is into that, I want to know upfront. Oh, yes, I have multiple orgasms with sexual intercourse.
hibiscus96818 hibiscus96818 8 years
I love to receive and getting it every time would not make it any less special for me!
missjessie missjessie 8 years
Love it could have it every time and it would still be special. My man loves to do it so I'm lucky i guess.
smoochiez smoochiez 8 years
i would love to have it all the time. but my man doesnt like oral much so when it happens i REALLY enjoy it
Symphonee Symphonee 8 years
I ask for it when I want sometimes he just does it. I don't need it everytime. It's good but I like actual sex better.
sparklestar sparklestar 8 years
My ex would INSIST on oral before intercourse because that's what his stepdad told him to do or something. It was boring and he wasn't that great about it. Now I get it when I get it - which is a lot - and it's nice not to have the pressure. I find it really hard to climax anyway so more pressure is just not needed.
LadyLiLa83 LadyLiLa83 8 years
Sunshine hit the nail right on the head! I'm definitely not opposed to it!!
macchiatolove macchiatolove 8 years
If it's done well, it's better than sex IMO, but I like the feeling of intimacy that you get from having intercourse. I wouldn't want it EVERY time we had sex, not because it would make it less special, but because I wouldn't want my partner to feel obligated. My orgasm is my responsibility and I choose whether or not I'm happy to just enjoy sex without getting off, or whether I'm going to chase the ellusive O through manual stimulation :)
Janine22 Janine22 8 years
Phyllis-love it how you say oral sex is shameful and yet you list yourself as bisexual. I think it would be pretty tough to keep another lady happy if you didn't go down once in a while! LOL You are silly. I like the oral sex myself! :)
mcockram mcockram 8 years
I like oral sex. I want it more often than not. Maybe not every time. That would be like making up some rules. boring. I think most men enjoy giving a woman pleasure. Why can't we accept that?
merie33 merie33 8 years
I'm with the ones that don't get off on it. I'm really not comfortable with it at all...I can't relax when it's happening. On the other hand, I do enjoy giving though... There's other ways to get off, and I don't feel the need to completely orgasm every single time either.
redjupe44 redjupe44 8 years
I think it makes it more of treat, rather than "less special." I've had it done a couple times before sex, but I haven't orgasmed through sex alone yet, so he makes sure he pleasures me to make sex more enjoyable anyway :)
Autumns_Elegy Autumns_Elegy 8 years
I don't always feel like giving (even though I get pestered into it a lot) and I rarely feel like receiving. It's fun but I just prefer intercourse.
xopiperxo xopiperxo 8 years
i love it but sometimes i just want to go straight to sex!
ThePerfectScore ThePerfectScore 8 years
Oral is just foreplay for me and my guy so it's essential.
free-fallin free-fallin 8 years
its heathermfrut--how do you get away with that? i dont really enjoy giving so not having to would be nice, haha
beautiful-disaster beautiful-disaster 8 years
oooo phyllis.. what are you doing reading about this? its not perversion, and it is definetly not shameful. its AMAZING when done properly. are you married? you should give it to your husband sometime. hell really like that
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