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Where Do You Stand? Sending a Lover Nude Photos

We all have our own feelings about nudity. While some of you have no problem stripping down in front of a new guy or changing at the gym, others are more modest, keeping yourselves covered until you trust a person enough to see the real you. Being naked can be very freeing though, which is one of the reasons sex is so exciting, special, and arousing, but would you try to capture those feelings in print? Ladies, where do you stand on sending nude photos of yourself to someone you're in a relationship with?


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Girl101 Girl101 7 years
I consider myself a virtual exhibitionist, but I would never do this. While I am liberal with my naked body, I am the one who chooses who gets to see it and where. Once you release those photos, you better hope you chose wisely who to give them to and that you never make that person mad.
jazzytummy jazzytummy 8 years
LOL at all of the people here claiming that they did it, but that THEIR boyfriends would NEVER pass them around. They must be the only ones that don't. Sorry, but even someone who seems so perfect now could turn out to be a pissed off ex in the future. Never say never. I agree with Rock and Republic...people take these pictures to be seen, they are seen, so lose the false modesty and quit complaining if other people saw your t!ts and b@sh. To the OP, make up your own mind, but just be aware that it is MORE LIKELY than not that your pictures will be seen by others than your boyfriend. Just sayin'.
RockAndRepublic RockAndRepublic 8 years
Im sure i've written somewhere that the concept of private photos is actually an oxymoron. You take the pictures because you want people to see it, but then you get mad because they're not on the guest list? c'mon! You can't have it both ways. Their are voyeur sites dedicated to just this.
sparklestar sparklestar 8 years
My boyfriend has pictures of me in an encrypted disk image on his computer. He is very private and would NEVER show those pictures to anybody. He is one of those decent guys you hear so little about... I'd never send it over my mobile network, they keep those and archive them!
tatsauce tatsauce 8 years
Heck yea. Long distance relationship.
ShiksaGoddess ShiksaGoddess 8 years
don't do it, never do it. my boyfriend sent his now ex nudie pics years ago, and one day, he now having been dating me for about a year and a half, the nudie pics found their way to craigslist, even tho he and crazy ex haven't spoken for 2 years. just don't do it. naked's better in person anyway.
bbkf bbkf 8 years
I have and I would again. I really don't care if they get shown around, either.
babygirl86 babygirl86 8 years
Yes, my fiance Cory and I did it before....he sent me pictures to my phone and I sent him pictures to his phone. I still have his picture too. But I will never give him pics again till we move in together because when I did his brother and friend saw them when they were snooping through his phone. At least I dated his brother before so he has already saw me naked, but his friend has not. Even so it was so embarassing.
meeshee meeshee 8 years
i don't think it's prude at all.. i would do it again, but the fact that it could potentially get into the wrong hands makes it a very dangerous thing to do. if i had a surefire way of knowing ONLY my bf would see it, then i'd do it all the time ;)
meeshee meeshee 8 years
i've done it, but i strongly advise you NOT TO DO IT. i did it, and my then bf (who i trusted so much...) somehow let it out (still not sure how he did it) basically, thousands of people saw them. i wanted to die.. and i was depressed. it's very dangerous, DON'T DO IT. no matter how many precautions you take or how trustworthy your guy is, something COULD go wrong.
Leanne1078 Leanne1078 8 years
I do it. My boyfriend is far away and its a nice way to surprise him sometimes :) I seriously doubt he would show anyone since he is so protective of me but I'm not embarrassed about it anyway! If Playboy wanted me, I'd be there LOL. Sometimes I even send him a little teasing video on Facebook--mainly just silliness and a couple boob flashes! Sorry, but I would never judge anyone based on whether or not they'll take a nude picture--that's immature and lame.
ThePerfectScore ThePerfectScore 8 years
Done it.... :) don't regret it yet haha b/c I threatened his life if they ever surface! But it was sexy and fun and I loved being his fantasy. I had fun taking them and he had fun getting them. It was a major highlight of his work day....
Frank-y-Ava Frank-y-Ava 8 years
My Ex and I were going to exchange (sexy) photos of ourselves but we never got around too it.
oohsexypenguin oohsexypenguin 8 years
Wow, such a sensitive issue. Can't we all just agree to disagree and leave it at that? I've taken nude photos for my fiancee. I trust him completely, and I know those photos will never be seen by anyone else's eyes. I would never have taken nude photos for my ex. We just didn't have that kind of trust. This is a personal decision that depends on one's comfort level and what feels right within the bounds of the relationship. If you choose not to, that doesn't mean you're an uptight prude; it's just not for you. If you choose to go ahead and take those pictures, that doesn't automatically make you a whore. Everyone's different.
stumbler02 stumbler02 8 years
Yea, I know my boyfriend would never share. But I'd never send them to him even if I wanted to, because what if his parents or friends accidentally found them on his computer or something? I can trust him but I can't trust every single other person who might be around his stuff.
Murmur314 Murmur314 8 years
Not all guys are scumbags who share pictures. Not all guys are clumsy tards who lose their stuff. Not all guys are too dumb to know computers and have their stuff duplicated without knowing. But some guys do value privacy and know how to protect it. That's the ones you go for and who you can trust. Who knows, you might actually end up marrying one of them.
CaterpillarGirl CaterpillarGirl 8 years
totally different things.
CaterpillarGirl CaterpillarGirl 8 years
and it was a question about nude pics, not you in underwear and heels.
CaterpillarGirl CaterpillarGirl 8 years
Cherry, so by saying "relax" you are saying we who oppose this are uptight. and I say, its just our relax yourself.
meechie meechie 8 years
NEVER you have no idea who might see them!!!!!
cherry-peel cherry-peel 8 years
Wow I had no idea this was such a serious issue for some people! It's really not a big deal, well, I guess naked pictures are, but sending sexy pictures of you in cute underwear with some high heels? I don't see how it's tactless. I did it even before I was married to my husband. Like I said, I keep them on a photobucket album that's private so only him and I can see it. Relax people!
KibzeeLovee KibzeeLovee 8 years
guilty! when you're in a long distance relationship sometimes you have to get creative...
FoxyJo FoxyJo 8 years
"If I had a boyfriend who clicked away as i was getting undressed or dressed, I would be creeped out beyond belief." I hope he still finds me sexy after 40 yrs of marriage too! (he better! ;))It's the greatest compliment when the one you love thinks you are sexy and beautiful. That's all I meant by that. We have only been together 3 1/2 years and I hope in our journey together keeping the spark alive will be a major factor in our relationship. And yes if ever we were to break up and he would sink as low as to post pics on the internet then there would only be one thing left for me to do...kill him! LoL! Ok, this is my biggest problem with working on a computer all day...I get sucked into these posts! Gotta love it! Have a great day all and Merry Christmas!!!
mydiadem mydiadem 8 years
I've done it (I'm in a LDR, that what you do), don't see a problem with it as long as my face isn't visible, and the quality is so low on camera phones there really isn't any way you can tell 100% its me. Before I ever did we laid down ground rules for it though, no sharing, etc. I'm with a very private guy so I'm not worried, and in all truthfulness, I don't really care if they did show up somewhere because I've made sure you can't tell its me. And I'm generally all for nudity, I have no qualms about it.
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