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Where Is My Long-Distance Relationship Going?

"Where Is My Relationship Going?"

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments!

I've been having a long-distance "relationship" for a little over a year now. We see each other almost every weekend and talk on the phone just about every night, not to mention the fact that we've gone on a couple of vacations, family functions, and social functions together. I have to say that I'm having feelings for him that make me nervous, seeing how I've only been divorced for two years.

Anyway, this past Tuesday we were talking on the phone and saying our good nights when he stopped and asked what was wrong. I was quite honest and said "I was thinking about a comment you made this weekend and I really want to ask you were this relationship is going, but I'm not sure I'm ready to hear your response." I didn't give him much of an opportunity to respond, said my good nights, and hung up. A few moments later he had texted me about plans for the weekend — after responding — I texted back saying "It would have been really nice if you had stopped me and answered the question." I put the phone down and walked away from it. He responded a few moments later with "I don't know yet." What does that mean? We got together for the Fourth and went to one of his friends' party. Ironically, two of his female friends pulled me aside and asked me where I thought our relationship was going, I wasn't sure what to say.


I'm scared, nervous, and not sure what to think. Does anyone have any words of wisdom for me?

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