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Which Comes First? Sleeping in the Same Bed or Sex

Sometimes when you meet someone, there is so much passion between you that you can't help but rip each other's clothes off and hop into bed. Then other times, the relationship starts off slow and sweet, and while you may hop into bed together, you end up just cuddling under the covers. So what usually happens first when you start seeing someone?


Lyv Lyv 8 years
ROFL!! I can't picture myself sleeping in the same bed with a boy I haven't done it with unless a natural disaster or really weird sleepover is going on. You gals crack me up, sometimes.
potterlove potterlove 8 years
Sleep first. I just want to know where his mind is when it comes to establishing comfort with each other, and pure lust.
Advah Advah 8 years
I'm with Bella - I *love* that first sleepover.
robinlh912 robinlh912 8 years
Sleeping. Actually my boyfriend stayed over (but not in my bed) before we even started to go out!
soul-bypass soul-bypass 8 years
With my very first boyfriend we shared a bed first(sleeping) but with the rest it was sex first. I guess the first one was a lot more special.
khadeekiinsz khadeekiinsz 8 years
We kissed and cuddled, we didn't sleep we just layed down and looked at each other. We were both virgins at the time, so we were very nervous to have sex anyways.
Marci Marci 8 years
Depends on the guy the girl and the circumstances.
Autumns_Elegy Autumns_Elegy 8 years
Sorta happened one the same night with us. :)
Miss-Senorita Miss-Senorita 8 years
Def sleeping together first then sex.
pippins_halfling pippins_halfling 8 years
Sleeping together before sex.
macchiatolove macchiatolove 8 years
Sex first, or both together. It's likely that my friends and family would assume that I've had sex with someone if I'm staying at his house, so I wouldn't stay unless I was comfortable with that assumption - eg, we're dating exclusively.
0fashionqueen 0fashionqueen 8 years
I like sex, but I like the woeing before sex becomes a part of the story.
Ac2366 Ac2366 8 years
Sex first. Sleeping is more intimate. When you can sleep like a baby next to a guy then you know you found a good one.
ThePerfectScore ThePerfectScore 8 years
I'm pretty sure we took a nap together 1st... haha. I was dating an older guy and I was still and high School and had a curfew so I could not spend the night at his apartment ( I was 18.. so it was legal). So I decided I would not lose my virginity to him until I was allowed to stay the night! I was not going to be kicked out without the breakfast in bed treatment the next day. I would have felt too much like a whore to have had sex then have to leave before day break. So the first time I slept the whole night with him was the night I lost my virginity, but we did share a lot of naps prior to that!
princess_eab princess_eab 8 years
Sleeping in the same bed - I slept in the same bed with my college boyfriend for four years before we decided to have sex...
Beauty Beauty 8 years
Sleeping in the same bed. I'm slooooow and I really enjoy the innocent sleepovers. I'm all about prolonging them. Basically, I have not outgrown my teenage courtship rituals. Ha!
oohsexypenguin oohsexypenguin 8 years
Sleeping in the same bed. You can tell a lot about a relationship by how two people share a bed.
SusanTeufel SusanTeufel 8 years
I slept with my husband in the same bed a few times before we were married, but there was sex first seeing he still lived with his parents, and he couldn't stay at my place xD
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 8 years
Sleeping first. It takes me a while to have a physical relationship with someone. But I've told I'm worth the wait. ;)
lauraxtc lauraxtc 8 years
Sex first.
luna08 luna08 8 years
Sex first. But, what I really want is that gorgeous iron bed in the picture! :)
Amandaletta Amandaletta 8 years
The day I met my boyfriend several years ago, we had so much fun hanging out that first night that we fell asleep in his bed and were inseparable after that.
skigurl skigurl 8 years
probably both the same night
aimeeb aimeeb 8 years
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