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Would You Ever Pay For Sex?

Nevada brothel owner Bobbi Davis has been hit by the recession. Luckily, she has plans to double her market — she's going to hire male prostitutes.

See, some women do pay for sex. A divorced mother-of-four wrote in the London Times a while back that she pays "Justin" $400 an hour for sex (and company), because she'd rather not have the complications of a relationship and doesn't have the time or energy to pursue one-night stands.

In Japan, gigolo services also cater to women; but one company said that while women pay for their flings, they often go sex-free. Apparently cuddles are worth $40 an hour.

If the women do want sex, one bordello owner says the brothel model can never be profitable. To see why,


You might think that since it often takes longer for a woman to get turned on, there'd be more to make; but since there's only so much a woman would pay for the whole experience, there's little profit to be made. The owner said: "Seducing a woman and seducing a man in a brothel environment are different things completely. One can take a few minutes, the other can take hours. It wouldn't make money." In other words, he thinks women want a three course meal with attentive service (and low profit margins).

At a brothel or not, would you pay for sex?


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Talldiva45 Talldiva45 8 years
I would never be able/want to pay for sex. But I understand and don't judge those who do. I just can think of so many other ways to spend that large amount of $$$ and obtain a lot more fulfillment personally.
gerrian gerrian 8 years
definitely not! if you could have the chance to make love with the person you love then why not wait for that day to come? besides the best thing in life are FREE!!
hypnoticmix hypnoticmix 8 years
"I would love for a hot sexy thing to come to my place, not speak unless I wanted him to, and give him a list of tasks to perform on me. When I've had enough he can leave, and I can watch Gossip Girl reruns in peace!" I agree that people shouldn't be too judgmental about this. However, I think the point also is you can get what you just described for free.
Sumhope Sumhope 8 years
well said tarynitup! i totally agree
tarynitup tarynitup 8 years
Wow! I'm surprised at how hostile so many women are to this idea! I would absolutely pay for sex and I wish it were legal in my state! I'm not interested in having a relationship right now, and I find that friends with benefits often turn into a situation where the woman is treated like she is performing a service for the man. Things seem to become imbalanced very easily in hook-up/f*^k buddy arrangements. I would love for a hot sexy thing to come to my place, not speak unless I wanted him to, and give him a list of tasks to perform on me. When I've had enough he can leave, and I can watch Gossip Girl reruns in peace! Spacekatgal said "It's not like it's that hard to get a boyfriend. Whatever. Spend the $400 on some therapy to figure out why men avoid you." This service isn't for the stereotypical ugly/fat/spinster chick. EVERY woman in the world can get laid anytime she wants. Having a man want to F*^k you is no accomplishment. Having a hot wealthy guy want to f*^k is no big deal. All you have to do is make it known that you're willing and they show up like moths to a flame. Having a man whose foremost concern is your sexual satisfaction is rare, and in my opinion worth paying for. Especially when the woman seeking it is not looking for love or a relationship.
NikkiBaby89 NikkiBaby89 8 years
Rebecca14916991 Rebecca14916991 8 years
Umm... no. I can't imagine having someone who didn't love me having sex with me. It's how I'm wired. It does not compute.
Sumhope Sumhope 8 years
if i >saw< something that i liked
Sumhope Sumhope 8 years
I would pay for sex... If i something/one that I liked :D After all why not.
khadeekiinsz khadeekiinsz 8 years
a guy would definetly do susan boyle. And no i wouldn't pay for sex. Kinda gross.
emma-noel emma-noel 8 years
2 the ppl sayin itz easy 2 get sex az a womn........susan boyle ne1?? 2 answr ur question, no 4 i respct myslf but then again i am only half woman............
kurniakasih kurniakasih 8 years
No since I'm getting it for free LOL.
eveday eveday 8 years
Now seriously, I don't think paying for sex is such a big deal. Sometimes men (or women) just want to have sex -- without having to give fake phone numbers or trying to sneak out during the night. My only problem with prostitution is when it's of children or even adults forced to work after being victims of human trafficking (or those who were tricked by promises of "jobs" in other countries).
eveday eveday 8 years
Men are the easiest things to find on earth. You may be in the middle of the desert, not being able to find one single drop of water but you will certainly find a man -- and he will be willing to have sex with you for free. However, I will answer the question with a "maybe". If the male prostitute looked (a lot) like any of the following... Thomas Jane Johnny Depp Viggo Mortensen Edward Norton Daniel Henney Eric Bana Blair Underwood ...I think I'd pay even more than 400 bucks. Oh, who am I kidding? I'd get a second or third mortgage to have them all (come on, at a time) :D
danakscully64 danakscully64 8 years
^^^ LOL :):):)
hypnoticmix hypnoticmix 8 years
Maybe I got the blue light special; a hot man, counseling, great sex and ice cream for eighty bucks. Not bad ;)
margokhal margokhal 8 years
I can do a hell of a lot with $400! Buy an XBox 360, a new phone w/o a contract, buy some books, get a plane, train, or bus ticket. Sex with a male prostitute is not going to make it on the list.... :\
SocialiteBeauty SocialiteBeauty 8 years
HELL NO even though I don't have a s/o I am not that desperate.
Smacks83 Smacks83 8 years
Ooopsie: I meant" HYPNO: Hotness!
Smacks83 Smacks83 8 years
Hypo: Hotness!
telane telane 8 years
No. Absolutely not. I have to work harder to make that $400 than I do to pick up someone at a bar! lol
hypnoticmix hypnoticmix 8 years
I wouldn't but the fact of the matter is I have. I was young stupid insecure and at the moment I was emotionally compromised from having just being dumped. And at the time I was a sucker for pretty boys with sculpted bodies. Cost me $80. A very attractive young man approached my car I had no clue he was a prostitute until well into the flirtatious conversation. When he brought up the money factor I was mildly shocked but I needed the companion ship and had no one else to turn to. My time with him was not all about sex. We sat on the roof of his building fed each other ice cream cuddled and talked till the black sky began to turn navy blue and then...well we had the most outrageously great sex as the sun broke across the eastern sky.
WeTheLiving WeTheLiving 8 years
No way, never! Just grosses me out. Funny that this should come up though, cuz I just had a dream about paying for sex the other night which I have never dreamt about before. Even in the dream I felt guilty and gross & was sneaking around; and we were meeting in a hotel & everyone there knew what was up. It was weird/bad.
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