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This or That: You're in Love With Her Man or Can't Stand Him?

This or That: You're in Love With Her Man or Can't Stand Him?

Your roommate has been gushing about the new guy she’s been dating for a couple of weeks. She hasn’t said much about him except that she’s smitten so you’re really excited to meet him when she brings him to a group get-together. The moment they get there, and you see him for the first time, you’re absolutely shocked since it turns out that you already know him. Would it be worse if…

This: You’ve had a secret crush on him for years? He’s your ideal guy in every way but he’s always had a girlfriend, which has always broken your heart. Apparently the new heartbreaker is your roommate.

Or . . .

That: You absolutely cannot stand him? He was one of those guys that you vowed never to spend another moment talking to if you could help it. He’s pompous, mean, and now, dating your roommate.


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keiraz keiraz 9 years
dating my LONG TERM CRUSH?? That would kill me! lol
blooditsnotfunny blooditsnotfunny 9 years
I would just tell her why I don't like him. If I had a good reason she would probably be convinced to stop seeing him. If it wasn't a good reason not to like him then I would just get over it. That's why I picked the long term crush... I would be so jealous it would probably ruin the friendship!
mandy_frost mandy_frost 9 years
It would be so painful if i was in love with him. It's hard enough to be around guys I have crushes on that have girlfriends I don't know.
LadyLibertine LadyLibertine 9 years
I say this because it may hurt but knowing they were both happy would be most important to me I have been in a similar situation of this before and that was my actions and thoughts
aimeeb aimeeb 9 years
I'd rather hate him.
JaimeLeah526 JaimeLeah526 9 years
As horrible as it sounds I'd rather be in love with him because then I'd be there if they broke up or if he somehow decided he liked me more than her. She's just your roommate not a friend right? You could always find a new roommate.
Marci Marci 9 years
I agree with Almost Famous. I'd go crazy if I couldn't stand the guy.
Lyv Lyv 9 years
Loving him would be waay worse! I can handle not being crazy about a friend's boyfriend because I hate playing third wheel anyway, so I could just ignore him! You can't ignore your crush dating or being in love with a friend.
lms lms 9 years
Being in love with him would be worse for me.
Kimpossible Kimpossible 9 years
for me it would be worse if she was dating my worst nightmare. Not only would it suck being around this jerk, but it would also suck that my friend is dating such a jerk. so it would be harder for me to sit back and watch her date someone who isn't worthy of her. If it was someone I was in love with but he not with me, then I'd be happy for both of them that they found true love in eachother.
pink_magnetism pink_magnetism 9 years
Being in love with him would be worse. I could handle her being with someone I don't like (and if he's a bad guy I'm sure she'll figure it out on her own) but seeing her with the guy I love ( and living with her)? That would hurt.
juicylove juicylove 9 years
wouldnt your roommate know if you had some crazy 'crush' on the guy? im sure if it was a huge deal you would bring it up at least at some point. but still, 'this' would be worse.
piksie007 piksie007 9 years
that's a really tough one..but i'm going to say that it's worse for her to be with a total fuckwipe. cuz i want my friend to be happy and in love with good guys... i don't think i could stand it if she were in love with an awful person.
letsgetloud21 letsgetloud21 9 years
I think this would be worse,but really you just have to get over it. and if you don't like him you can always avoid him.
MindayH MindayH 9 years
It would hurt a lot more about the crush. Plus my roomate is awesome and would not let the worst nightmare guy stick around for very long.
kurniakasih kurniakasih 9 years
Loving someone taken is the worst, in my book anyway.
emalove emalove 9 years
I think "this" would be would be SO hard to watch them together if I was in love with him. I could deal with not liking him...I'd just try to avoid as much as possible.
aeschere aeschere 9 years
loving him would be so much worse. i can deal with people i don't like. but the emotional torture of seeing him all the time if you like him.. nooo wayyyy.
almost-famous almost-famous 9 years
I don't like being around people I don't like... So "that" would be worst! Me and the roommate would have to let our own visitors over.. I wouldn't be able to control him NOT coming over...
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