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If you Had to Choose....

Achieving personal success and making all your dreams come true is not easy; it takes hard work and serious dedication. Women oftentimes are forced to juggle and sacrifice in order to do it all. But what if you could only achieve success in one aspect of your personal life? What role means the most to you?


melda melda 10 years
i'd choose love and marriage
lexichloe lexichloe 10 years
If one finds their passion and ultimate purpose in life, it would have to be career. One's career ultimately defines, motivates, and is one's sense of self. I know there are stay at home moms out there, for which I have great respect. But if you are a single woman in the USA today, your main purpose and drive should be to focus on your career.
partysugar partysugar 10 years
Career. It's 2007 I realize there is no knight in shining armor who is going to save me. I want to be a successful writer with a vaca house in Spain and who is going to give these things to me? Well I am of course!
demeter demeter 10 years
Motherhood & marriage should be hand in hand. I want to be a mother very badly but I won't do it until I get married.
Daisy6264 Daisy6264 10 years
Marriage and Motherhood.
JennyJen2 JennyJen2 10 years
Other - I would say family as a whole. Marriage and motherhood would be included in this.
Fancy04 Fancy04 10 years
Love and motherhood.
Trixie6 Trixie6 10 years
A long time ago, I would have said love. Now, it's motherhood. We have five kids between us and I'm doing everything I can to make sure that they grow to be confident enough to achieve their dreams.
andaman andaman 10 years
Career and then motherhood next. I feel broody. As far as giving to others, we do that together. My husband is very nice that way. He's kind.
calibabi calibabi 10 years
all you need is love
summer-roberts summer-roberts 10 years
What would you use to measure success in motherhood or marriage? For me love is that measurement.
popgoestheworld popgoestheworld 10 years
If I could find a way to really touch people's lives and help the world through philanthropy, that would be the most important thing for me to do.
katie225 katie225 10 years
i was thinking motherhood, but i don't want to be a mother unless i had achieved success in love with the father of my children. so i chose love instead. and success in marriage doesn't necessarily mean you've succeeded in love either.
pinkangelmonkey pinkangelmonkey 10 years
love. by far love.
mollipop mollipop 10 years
I voted for love, because without it, none of the other choices would mean all that much to me.
honey31 honey31 10 years
Love its so important not just with a man but family and friends.Love is a precious that so many take for granted or never have.
blogsap blogsap 10 years
i'm w/ cravinsugar.
StefaPie StefaPie 10 years
other: my friends and family, they're what's important to me
vmruby vmruby 10 years
Love...... hands down
callmehoney callmehoney 10 years
i agree with pinupsweetheart...with love everything falls into place. i wouldn't want a marriage or kids without love.
acrylicana acrylicana 10 years
I voted career. I guess that's all that's on my mind these days.
pinupsweetheart pinupsweetheart 10 years
I would have to be love. If you have love, everything else just falls into place.
kendalheart kendalheart 10 years
I said career. I do not want to define my life by a relationship or even my children....I have worked way too hard to be a teacher to give it up. If I had my career, I would have children...that I love! See if you find that one can bring you all of those things.
MissPretty MissPretty 10 years
cause it feels so go to love....u can do everything else....but love is so hard to get.
fab4 fab4 10 years
Yeah, me too. Love is a big one, and to me once I get that, I will achieve other great things like marriage and motherhood. Success is important, but not the most important.
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