I love babywearing. With my first child I tried out the BabyBjorn [1], frequently wore him in an Ergobaby [2], and occasionally carried him in a fabric wrap. Now with my second, I'm loving the ring sling. No matter which baby carrying method you choose, wearing your little one can be a sweet way to bond while also being incredibly practical (hello free hands!).
But whether you're registering for must-haves for your first baby [3] or just shopping for yourself, it can be hard to decide which carrier makes the most sense for your lifestyle without buying and trying them all. But thanks to my apparent obsession with purchasing baby gear, I already did that! Read on for tips to help you choose the best way to wear your little one and once you've found the perfect option, make sure to take note of the most common baby-wearing mistakes [4] parents make.
Front and Back Carriers
- Pros: Many of these carriers allow baby to face out, which helps keep them from getting antsy as they become more alert. Some brands are also suitable for wearing baby on your back, which is a nice option to have for longer walks or even hikes. I leave my front carrier in the car for an easy option when I'm out and about since all it takes is two snaps to secure.
- Cons: If more than one person will be using the carrier, you'll have to readjust all the straps before each use, which can be frustrating once you've found the perfect fit! I've heard some friends complain that these types of carriers hurt their back, but I've found you can usually remedy that by adjusting the different straps, which may take a little practice.
- Weight limits: From about 7 pounds up to 30. Some brands require an infant insert for babies under 12 pounds.
- Tips and tricks: You can nurse on the go by loosening the straps and lowering baby to breast height. Bonus: some styles have pockets which are perfect for stashing an extra pacifier or even your credit card for a quick store run.
- Brand we love: Ergobaby [5]
Ring Slings
- Pros: Unlike wraps, once you thread your sling, you're good to go with only minor adjustments needed the next time you want to use it. It's pretty easy to get the hang of (as in, I only had to watch the tutorial video once) and there are multiple ways to wear your baby including front, back, and hip. I love that I can wear my 20-pound 9-month-old on my hip just like I'd carry him, but with hands free.
- Cons: For more physical activities, you might want a more structured carrier. The bulk of the weight falls on your opposite shoulder with the hip hold, which can get tiring.
- Weight limits: Newborn to about 35 pounds.
- Tips and tricks: It's easy to clean by throwing it in the washing machine with a sock over the rings.
- Brand we love: Wildbird [6]
Wraps
- Pros: Soft fabric wraps allow for a close and customized (not to mention cute!) hold. Because you can adjust the tightness, wrap it at different heights on your torso, and place your baby in different positions, it's easy to find a hold that works perfectly for you. Which means it's a great option for all different body types and sizes. I preferred wearing my son in a wrap during the first few months when he still seemed too tiny for a more structured carrier, and it's still a comfortable way to carry him even at 20 pounds.
- Cons: Learning to wrap it properly takes a little practice (you might want to stand in front of a mirror!). Until you get the hang of it, you'll have to start from the beginning if, once you place your baby in it, you realize you didn't get the fit quite right.
- Weight limits: Up to 25 pounds.
- Tips and tricks: When in doubt, tie it tighter! I found that tying it tighter and higher on your torso than you'd think necessary made for the most secure hold.
- Brand we love: SollyBaby [7]
Backpacks
- Pros: If you're planning any hiking trips or other physical activities a backpack will make it so much easier to bring your little one along for the ride. These often have sunshades to keep baby protected from the elements and plenty of pockets for snack or toy storage. One of the best features is that you can carry a much older child with this style, which allows you to continue your adventures with a bigger toddler or even a 3-year-old who doesn't have the stamina to walk.
- Cons: Backpacks are best suited for big outings and hikes, so you'll want a different option for grocery store runs. And don't overlook the fact that you'll have to add this to the endless list of large, oddly shaped baby gear that you'll need to find a place to store.
- Weight limits: From about 16 to almost 50 pounds.
- Tips and tricks: Some models have added features like loops to hang toys from and easy-access pockets for parents to store a water bottle.
- Brand we love: Kelty [8]