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Bringing Sexy Back: Rub A Dub Dub

When Ernie, the beloved puppet on Sesame Street sang, "Rubber Ducky, you're the one," I don't think he had this one in mind. This rubber ducky ain't for baby, but it can help you rekindle the flame you once had.

Innocent looking and discreet, the I Rub my Duckie ($24) vibrator can provide entry to an adventurous postpartum sex life. The little yellow guy might make bath and bedtime lots of fun.

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JennyJen2 JennyJen2 9 years
So what all you people are trying to say is that I should not be a little taken aback when next they flop a big dildo picture on the site and using my kid's tickle me elmo doll to get off is okay - since it takes sex to get pregnant. All I was saying was that I think it is a little off for the norm of the site and I didn't agree with the message that it is sending. I am all about bringing back the love after baby and kids are in the picture, just not like this.
kikidawn kikidawn 9 years
Let me ask this... how many of you have either played out a fantasy or been with a man that has a fantasy like this one: 'catholic school girl'? How is that any different? Girls should not be objects of sexual desire, but that is an acceptable fantasy. I don't see what the difference is. I guess it just doesn't bother me b/c I never had a rubber ducky. I don't associate that with my childhood, if you do fine.
macgirl macgirl 9 years
Just because I am open minded and not offended by this little duck thing doesn't mean I'm kissing anyones ass. While I wouldn't own it I do know people that would feel more comfortable with something like this rather than the more traditional vibrator shape. I don't think that makes them wrong or sick. Some people might even feel more comfortable having this hidden away in a bedroom drawer in case the kid found it. My only reason for posting was to be sure to let the writers of the lilsugar blog know that some people are interested in the "bringing sexy back" line of posts. I also happen to believe that yes, moms do deserve to reach a fabulous orgasm. That's just me though. I would never dream of posting a comment that was completely one sided saying that ALL moms SHOULD be having fabulous orgasms. I think being a mommy is hard enough without all the judgmental comments :-(
lorenashley lorenashley 9 years
totally leo. very inappropriate to use a KIDS TOY as a sexual object. it's sick. i love you too babe :hug:
letsgetloud21 letsgetloud21 9 years
exactly LEO..:)
Leopardcc Leopardcc 9 years
You know I thought we were all free to express our opinions here, thought that was the point of the post. My problem isn't with the post at all, I was just saying I didn't like the idea of using A CHILD'S TOY as an object to get sexual gratification.
letsgetloud21 letsgetloud21 9 years
:ROTFL: L,that is why I love you :)
lorenashley lorenashley 9 years
LOL @ you people getting mad. we thought it wasnt called for so we said it. no need for you all to ass kiss. kiki---people have to have sex to get pregnant?? NOOOO WAY! so the purpose of LILSUGAR is to tell moms has to reach a fabulous orgasm??? you people and these smart ass comments are so funny and annoying.
macgirl macgirl 9 years
I think this is perfect for this site. I happen to like the "bringing sexy back" line of posts. Having a baby/kids can take such a toll on the sex life. If there are really that many of you that don't like these kind of posts, the good news is they are very clearly labeled in the header and you can skip them. I think it is important to be reminded occasionally that you are more than a mommy. Things can be so overwhelming at times it is easy to forget.
Rafka Rafka 9 years
The post is fine, but should be on Fit Sugar or Dear Sugar. This is more of a sexual health item than pregnancy or parenthood. Additionally I've seen this item on other sites, none which I consider risque.
annebreal annebreal 9 years
I think I saw this on good vibes while I was shopping around the other day and doesn't it have a bondage outfit or something too to put on it? I laughed but would probably have a hard time getting my jollies from it since it is such an iconic Sesame Street and childhood object...my mind tends to wander and try and O-block for me anyhow sometimes, don't need the help! Gotta be honest I thought this post was a little random but agree that the mothers on here should have the maturity level to deal.
CuteCapri115 CuteCapri115 9 years
I have to agree with Traceface - Some people are just too extra!! I hate to say what was already said but this is a site for ADULTS to learn things about their kids and their self while they raise their kids. Some people are acting like 2 & 3 year olds are going to be logging on and reading about the Ducky. Geez people get over yourselves!!!!
bransugar79 bransugar79 9 years
I think this is a little freaky... but I think that's the point. While I don't think I woudl get a rubber duck vibrator I don't see how it's incredibly offensive. i know a lot of women in general not just new moms have a hard time with exploring their sexuality. If that's the case then admit it and move on, but if the information could help someone else feel more comfortable with herself or maybe help save a relationship then how can it be harmful
myconscience myconscience 9 years
um, i don't see what there is to be offended about here. this isn't a kid's site. it's a site for adults. adults have sex. it's natural & normal & unless you adopt, or are in with the storks, there's no way to have a child without sex. presumably, adults who own these vibrators aren't going to hand them over to their kids. i think it's a great idea, & i'm glad for the tip. it isn't as if babysugar posted a porno & forced you to watch it. good grief!
JennyJen2 JennyJen2 9 years
I was just shocked that the post ended up on lilsugar. I dunno - it just shocked me - call me a prude or what you may, but I guess I just wasn't prepared for it.
Moms Moms 9 years
Good points kikidawn and great post babysugar!
kikidawn kikidawn 9 years
trace face, :ROTFL: my mom said the same exact thing when I told her about some of the comments on this post!! :D
1QTPIE 1QTPIE 9 years
Wow.... that's a twist on Rubber Ducky. I still watch Ernie and Ducky with my kids when ever I'm home with them. I guess I gotta get my husband to watch ducky with me... lol.. I'm just being silly. I don't need a vibrator... Yeah I don't get the blow up on here about ducky. Don't want your kids to find it don't get it point blank. Don't think it's appropriate don't read the post.
trace-face62028 trace-face62028 9 years
Wow.. stuffy much? Some of you sound like you NEED this thing.. lol I don't know why you people are so offended, jeeezus. Like it was mentioned before, we're all adults here, lets get over it please.
kikidawn kikidawn 9 years
Exactly karisaamy and Rally RE!
karisaamy karisaamy 9 years
You ladies got a bit too up in arms about this. You have kids, you must have had sex in the past. Plus it's just a rubber ducky, are you that much of a prude that you would be embarrassed if your childern found a rubber ducky in your room?? It looks like a rubber ducky they aren't going to think it is anything but that. Wow get over it.
Rally-RE Rally-RE 9 years
A whole new take on Rubber Ducky - who knew!!!!! And, big deal if your child finds this "special" ducky. What's the worst thing that can happen? Ducky comes to life and zooms around the tub! There are so many other things to worry about and get upset about right now ... this shouldn't be one of them.
mbrown81 mbrown81 9 years
I just can't find anything about a rubber duck sexy, even if it does vibrate.
kikidawn kikidawn 9 years
omg! These responses are getting ridiculous ... you had kids, you were pregnant.. did you get your baby by stork? And if you adopted- someone somewhere was having sex approximately 9 months before your baby was born. Come on everyone has sex. And like Macgirl said it's a site about having kids and raising them. Kids shouldn't be on the site. So it's not going to ruin their ideas of what rubber ducky is. Part of being a mom is having a relationship with dad (or the other parent) and if you are married or still with the dad then part of that relationship should be a healthy sex life. Exploration and something new is part of that! People are wayyyy toooo sensitive about things now days. Babysugar, I thought it was hilarious, had a laugh, then cruised over to the website to see what else is there.
macgirl macgirl 9 years
Hmmm, last I checked this was a site about having kids and raising them... not meant for the kids. I don't think there is anything wrong with this post. I think it is important to be reminded to not let your relationship slip after you have the baby. Infants take so much time and energy it is easy to take the relationship for granted. Let's not forget how we all got pregnant in the first place.
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