Spousal traits that don't bother you before babe may after. In addition to the stress of having a child, sleepless nights, hormone changes and getting adjusted to parenthood can shorten tempers and lead to arguments between otherwise amicable couples.

Things that you didn't think twice about before becoming a parent — your husband's failure to replace the paper towels or casual cursing — may become increasingly annoying.

Did adding kids to the mix cause you and your partner to quarrel?