Family togetherness or time apart? When it comes to major milestones like anniversaries and birthdays, some moms and pops like to take time away from their kids and reconnect with one another. Others find it more festive to spend the day with those that have grown out of their relationship. Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes recently celebrated their second wedding anniversary with children Isabella, 15, Connor, 13, and Suri, 2, in Los Angeles. In a similar vein, Jon and Kate Gosselin got sentimental about renewing their nuptial vows in the presence of their twins and sextuplets this Summer. What do you and your partner do when big days roll around — go exclusive or inclusive?