The Ultimate Holiday Tipping Guide For Parents

Updated on 12/18/2018 at 12:25 PM

The holidays are the most wonderful time of the year, but they can also be the most stressful when you factor in all the gift giving, parties to attend, menu planning, travel arrangements, and family get-togethers. For already stressed out parents, it's often easy to forget about one important holiday task: making sure you appropriately tip and thank the people that make your life a little bit easier throughout the year. From teachers and babysitters to dog walkers and mail carriers, it's appropriate — and thoughtful — to tip a number of people in your life. Here's everything you need to know about how much to give who.

Babysitter

For your regular babysitter (someone that watches your kids during date nights and other similar outings), an appropriate holiday tip is a cash gift equal to one night's pay. A small gift from your children, which can be homemade or something small like a gift card to their favorite store or coffee shop, is also appropriate.

Teacher

While it's customary to give a gift to your child's teacher (or teachers), a cash gift is not appropriate. Think along the lines of a thoughtful gift, such as a coffee mug, gift certificate, or cute stationary. Personal, handmade items, such as drawings or baked goods, are another good option.

Nanny

If you have a full-time nanny, you should gift them with between a week's and a month's pay, plus a gift. Meanwhile, childcare finder Care.com says one week's salary is the norm but acknowledges that some families give more or less. Of course, this depends on a number of factors, including your financial situation, the number of children you have, the demands of your nanny's job, and how long they've worked for you. If any of these numbers are higher than average, then it's wise to consider giving more than just one week of extra pay.

This rule also applies to other full-time domestic help, such as a personal caregiver or cook.

Housekeeper/Cleaner

The same one-week of pay guidance applies to housekeepers and cleaners, too. To the people that keep your house (and sanity!) in order, a cash tip up to the amount of one week's pay — and/or a small gift — is appropriate.

Day Care Provider

The suggested tip amount for day care providers, according to the Emily Post Institute, is a gift from you for $25-$70 for each staff member who works with your child or children, as well as a small gift from your children.

Mail Carrier

While it's nice to give your mail carrier a Christmas gift, it's important to note that they are not allowed to accept cash, per federal regulations. However, you can give them a non-monetary gift worth $20 or less.

Dog Walker/ Pet Sitter

For the person who takes care of your best friend, a cash tip equivalent to one service is appropriate. If they're a regular caretaker of your beloved dog, you may want to consider a tip up to one week's pay.

Newspaper Carrier

If you get a newspaper delivered to your doorstep each morning, consider giving your carrier a $20 Christmas bonus.